What are your thoughts on poly relationships?

@mamabird228, I agree I am thinking about it I been in a few b4

☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾@mamabird228,

To me it’s like what’s the point in even being in a relationship in the first place when you want to sleep with other people.

@dontspankme, true I felt like that at one point

@brilynn.mother, do you want to be in a poly relationship again or your man wants it?

@dontspankme, I want to

@brilynn.mother, does he not satisfy everything you want? Plus you have kids to think about too.

@dontspankme, I’m single n my daughter would not b around the relationship till we are ready

I honestly think it's pointless. Like @dontspankme said, why even be in a relationship of you want to be with many people? Plus I feel like it could be confusing for children if they are brought around.

I have many opinions on this topic and they are all negative. Just being honest.

@brilynn.mother, so it’s not really a poly relationship since you are single. You just want to be with different guys. Just be safe in whatever you do and always keep your baby safe.

@dontspankme, I’m joining another relationship

@rikki., it’s to each is own if anything is negative I ask to not comment any here not really here for the negative feed back just want everyone take on it now I know yours is negative

@brilynn.mother, oooooh makes sense now. That’s interesting. Make sure his girl is not a psycho and be careful. I’ve never met anyone in a poly relationship before so not much advice I can give.

@dontspankme, yeah I have been on n off with the couple to get used to their ways

@brilynn.mother yeah, I figured you didn't necessarily want to hear it so I kept it as vague as I could. Good luck to you.

@brilynn.mother, I feel like I have so many questions now lol

@dontspankme, I’m open to answer any questions

@rikki., thnks

@brilynn.mother, ok! Are you with both of them or just one person?

@dontspankme, both

@brilynn.mother, oooo girl! Lol is it only sexually or are y’all like a couple? Like dates and stuff

@dontspankme, yeah we go on dates we have sexual relationships

@brilynn.mother, wow that must require a ton of trust! But you don’t see it as a long standing relationship though right? Like later on don’t you want to find the right person for you and get married

@brilynn.mother i have friends who are poly and it works great for them there son calls both women mom and they are the sweetest people I've ever met my husband and I looked into it and it wasn't for us but I've seen it work very well

More chances of getting an STD

I think as long as everyone involved is consenting then why not

It’s not something that I’m interested in, I wouldn’t agree to be in a relationship like this, and I’ve never seen it work out in a positive manner, but if everyone is a consenting adult and understands the boundaries of what your relationship is, live your life.

If you're okay with forever being a side chick go for it!

@masseymomma16, how do u figure it’s a side chick? We are both girl friends no wife we all met at the same time we sleep in the same bed n etc we do everything together so where is the side chick part coming in at? Please explain!

@shellbell0391, true but we are all faithful to each other we get tested all together we have never ran into any std or sexual transmitted diseases

@dontspankme, no I don’t see it as a long last relationship I done this before I always leave the relationship to go my own way and do my own thing

@queenmeeks, agree we are all in a relationship we all know what we do and don’t want we have agreed and disagree on things so we have a good understanding

@brilynn.mother, ok. Well thanks for answering my questions and keeping it real.

@rosehall1517, yes right some relationships do work out it’s not like we are wife and girlfriend we are all 3 together we eat and sleep together in the same bed we all have kids outside of the relationship we do everything together n long as communication and understanding and open minds and respect are involved things will work out

@dontspankme, welcome any time

@janeljade1985, right we all understand and agree and disagree we all have respect and understanding of what each other wants and needs so we are all getting used to each other

@brilynn.mother it definitely takes a level of maturity and openness that most people don't have. My so and I have talked about it and both of us are more comfortable staying monogamous but I think it's great if people can make it work

@janeljade1985, yeah we have been getting to know and understand each other there are no favs we live together but also have separate homes me personally don’t always like being around them a lot like any relationship so I go my own house n relax with my bby girl n go back for a few days n so on we give each other 1 on 1 time with each other to talk get to know n etc

@brilynn.mother, you're being brought into THEIR relationship? Right?

@masseymomma16, yeah they are already together but we all met at the same time I just never wanted to join them

@brilynn.mother, oh ok that's different! My best friend who was male had polys. Not my cup of tea but it was very interesting lol