I don't understand why my ex is making things so difficult. I asked him if he would switch his day visit with Gabe for the week before because I'd like to go on vacation with my grandparents (I can't change when they want to go). Now I have been accommodating with him and his visits because he says the day he has during the week changes every week but he still can't give me an answer about next month because he has to check with his girlfriend and he just hasn't decided yet. I never ask him to switch with me either 😫 why does it have to be so difficult with him??
This is why y’all should’ve stayed true to the court order. Don’t let him switch days anymore because now it’s turning into a situation. Good luck hun...
@gabes_mommy_5.11.14, I get it, it seems silly, but he doesn’t have to switch. You don’t have to either. Clearly you have your child’s best interest in mind and do so when you can, but that doesn’t mean he has to.
@laniejay, yes but he's not losing time just switching the week and if we get technical this court ordered week day is Tuesday but he has to change it all the time.
As much as it sucks, he doesn’t have to be accommodating if there’s a court order. It’s his time.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...

My son just handed me this…. As an adult I made the decision not to get it and told him why I choose not to. Asked him if he knew anything about COVID or the vaccine and he said no all he knows it’s that it’s out there. At the end I asked him if he wants the vaccine I will sign the form if not we ignore it. He said no thank you 😊.
Got home around 11... washed lil man up and made him a bottle... asked my husband to get off his phone and help me put him to sleep... as soon as I did, my husband sat on the couch and fell right to sleep with Zach in his arms... I walked over to him and picked Zach up and he has to nerve to jump awake talking about I scared him because he thought he dropped Zach... this is why I’ve stopped asking him to hold him... he is irresponsible... I ended up setting up Zach’s stand up floor lamp, rearran...
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
@sincerepolicy, yes I think that's what is going to happen