I finally stood my ground and told my SO NO!!! He has a gambling problem. We got into it today when he asked me to overdraft my account to give him some money. I had money( I had to get my mom some groceries). And want me to believe his lies. That he is doing better and not blowing more money than he put into the home. He F@$&ed when it slipped out how much he did weekly! Then get pissed at me cause I told him I learned from the past and never gonna make the same mistaks again! My money is my money! I can't even go him to borrow money! And yes when my car go down. He let me use his. But financially (that's a whole another venting session)!!!!!