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marlena jones
I finally stood my ground and told my SO NO!!! He has a gambling problem. We got into it today when he asked me to overdraft my account to give him some money. I had money( I had to get my mom some groceries). And want me to believe his lies. That he is doing better and not blowing more money than he put into the home. He F@$&ed when it slipped out how much he did weekly! Then get pissed at me cause I told him I learned from the past and never gonna make the same mistaks again! My money is my money! I can't even go him to borrow money! And yes when my car go down. He let me use his. But financially (that's a whole another venting session)!!!!!
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lana30319

@rowdy-vajazzy He claims I knew and I saw occaisal lottery tickets when we got together a few years ago. He not willing to get help. Its other folks in his family that have the funds to gamble big. And they get good results when they do win. He is trying to be like them. Except we freaking poor!
But he never asked me for money. I never had to cover him in bills. After his mom passed last year I assumed it was his way of grieving! But after seeing over $100 a week missing I had to get noisy and put my foot down.

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lana30319

@rowdy-vajazzy He claims I knew and I saw occaisal lottery tickets when we got together a few years ago. He not willing to get help. Its other folks in his family that have the funds to gamble big. And they get good results when they do win. He is trying to be like them. Except we freaking poor!
But he never asked me for money. I never had to cover him in bills. After his mom passed last year I assumed it was his way of grieving! But after seeing over $100 a week missing I had to get noisy and put my foot down.

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lana30319

@micjulzac3 girl I have came up with good hiding spots.

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micjulzac3

We had a rule dont. Touch my purse so that is where I kept mine

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lana30319

@micjulzac3 I had that going on for ourn1st child. Until one day he checked the mail. And a statement had her name on it. And with my tax money I try to do that also. But I fucked up when I left my stub in my car. And he took my car one morning.

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micjulzac3

When i had a lazy SO that spent money we didn't have I opened a savings account he knew nothing about and put money in it he didn't know was going into it. Saved money and he had no clue.

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rowdy-vajazzy

I’m glad you put your foot down. I’m sorry he has lied to you and has a gambling addiction. Is he open to getting help?

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