So Has Anybody Else Husband Or Boyfriend Said They Don't Want To Have Sex With Them While They're Pregnant Because They Are A Germ Freak And Don't Like All The Wetness During Sex While Pregnant? 🤔 I'm Curious Because This Is My Husbands Excuse And I Have Never Heard Of This One Before It Kinda Makes My Mind Wonder
@johnsonarriel24 yea I am lol but thank god doctor said baby will be here this week
@ralesshafelder yea I think that's what it is he is scared
@autumnrenea757 yea its the baby...nothing to worry about jus masterbate til bby here lok
@autumnrenea757, lord idk what to say my kids father never was liked that but feeling baby move is weird but he could be nervous
@ralesshafelder nope this is his first child first experience and yea that's why it didn't make sense to me cuz I thought that was the purpose for men that have sex because its wet I thought Wetness was a good thing but apparently for him its too much wetness , but he is freaking about the whole thing he don't touch me ...like if the baby moves he never wants to touch it cuz he says it makes his stomach weak, I don't think he is gonna be able to handle me going into labor I am 38 weeks till Thursday and I'm having contractions right now and he is freaking out already (he might pass out 😂)
Did you guys have sex with other kids and idk sounds like an excuse idc how much you don’t like germs you been in there before it was wet and guys love the wetness
@raqueliiosiis yea im not worried about it I was just curious, my hormones sometimes got the best of me , but now its about me going into labor but I went to my doctors today and she said we should have a baby by wed or Thursday so everything is good
@autumnrenea757, I’m 18 weeks and have had sex maybe once since he saw the baby waving in our ultrasound so maybe since 12 week ultrasound. I have a small bump and he’s just worried about hurting the baby lol. I don’t want to be like the other girls who commented and tell you to worry because trust me my husband isn’t cheating he’s just really excited about the baby and doesn’t want anything to do wrong. (And my OB has told him in our appts that we’re okay to have sex he just won’t do it lol). Don’t stress about it maybe have him do some nipple stimulation to help with labor.
@raqueliiosiis we had sex up until I was about 20weeks then we found out I had placenta previa but then at my 30thweek had a ultrasound was clear to have sex but he won't do ever since I started getting a stomach that's pretty much it for a sec life
@raqueliiosiis yea that's what he started saying was its weird knowing his baby is in there also I had placenta previa for the first half of the pregnancy
@raelene_g oh ok well im not alone lol
@johnsonarriel24 no that's the crazy part
@autumnrenea757, girl my mind always wanders. I’m not trying to be the devils advocate, but if it was me I’d definitely be investigating a little bit.
My husband doesn’t complain about wetness but this is our first baby and he has a weird thing with knowing his son is in there and he won’t touch me with a 50 foot pole.
Me and my husband had sex 5 times during my entire pregnancy because he was weirded out 🤷🏻♀️
@autumnrenea757 its probably all the above...do he have flirtacious tendencies? Like do think he steppin out on u?
@blakeslatinmama yea u could be right that's why I haven't made it a real problem I just wish he would have sex with me so I can go into labor I been dilated to 3 for a week now , yea this is the first time he has said this to me
@missheatherbaby that's exactly my point sex is never clean ....he is OK with oral tho that's why I dont get it , my mind wonders alot with it tho cuz he is ocd and like crazy about germs ,but he has also done time in jail ,then there is the thought that its just me he don't wanna have sex with me (things have been a lil rocky)
@blakeslatinmama yea he does have ocd ....
Sounds weird to me. Most men like when it’s super wet. Sex isn’t the cleanest thing if your pregnant or not. Sounds like a dumb excuse.
Maybe he's just weirded out by having sex while pregnant but didn't want to say that and tried to make an excuse?
Definitely doesn't sound like a typical male response. Sounds like a dumb excuse to get out of it to me.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

Moms,
We wanted to take a minute to welcome all our new users from BabyBump! We are so happy to have you with us, and we welcome you into our loving community of moms and moms-to-be!
We want to let you know that mom.life is exclusively offering to migrate your posts and photos from Baby Bump so you don't lose your precious moments by switching apps!
Here is the form for migrating your BabyBump data. If you would like us to migrate it to your mom.life profile, please fill it out as soo...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Definitely doesn't sound like a typical male response. Sounds like a dumb excuse to get out of it to me.