So Has Anybody Else Husband Or Boyfriend Said They Don't Want To Have Sex With Them While They're Pregnant Because They Are A Germ Freak And Don't Like All The Wetness During Sex While Pregnant? 🤔 I'm Curious Because This Is My Husbands Excuse And I Have Never Heard Of This One Before It Kinda Makes My Mind Wonder
Definitely doesn't sound like a typical male response. Sounds like a dumb excuse to get out of it to me.
Maybe he's just weirded out by having sex while pregnant but didn't want to say that and tried to make an excuse?
Sounds weird to me. Most men like when it’s super wet. Sex isn’t the cleanest thing if your pregnant or not. Sounds like a dumb excuse.
@missheatherbaby that's exactly my point sex is never clean ....he is OK with oral tho that's why I dont get it , my mind wonders alot with it tho cuz he is ocd and like crazy about germs ,but he has also done time in jail ,then there is the thought that its just me he don't wanna have sex with me (things have been a lil rocky)
@blakeslatinmama yea u could be right that's why I haven't made it a real problem I just wish he would have sex with me so I can go into labor I been dilated to 3 for a week now , yea this is the first time he has said this to me
@autumnrenea757 its probably all the above...do he have flirtacious tendencies? Like do think he steppin out on u?
Me and my husband had sex 5 times during my entire pregnancy because he was weirded out 🤷🏻♀️
My husband doesn’t complain about wetness but this is our first baby and he has a weird thing with knowing his son is in there and he won’t touch me with a 50 foot pole.
@autumnrenea757, girl my mind always wanders. I’m not trying to be the devils advocate, but if it was me I’d definitely be investigating a little bit.
@raqueliiosiis yea that's what he started saying was its weird knowing his baby is in there also I had placenta previa for the first half of the pregnancy
@raqueliiosiis we had sex up until I was about 20weeks then we found out I had placenta previa but then at my 30thweek had a ultrasound was clear to have sex but he won't do ever since I started getting a stomach that's pretty much it for a sec life
@autumnrenea757, I’m 18 weeks and have had sex maybe once since he saw the baby waving in our ultrasound so maybe since 12 week ultrasound. I have a small bump and he’s just worried about hurting the baby lol. I don’t want to be like the other girls who commented and tell you to worry because trust me my husband isn’t cheating he’s just really excited about the baby and doesn’t want anything to do wrong. (And my OB has told him in our appts that we’re okay to have sex he just won’t do it lol). Don’t stress about it maybe have him do some nipple stimulation to help with labor.
@raqueliiosiis yea im not worried about it I was just curious, my hormones sometimes got the best of me , but now its about me going into labor but I went to my doctors today and she said we should have a baby by wed or Thursday so everything is good
Did you guys have sex with other kids and idk sounds like an excuse idc how much you don’t like germs you been in there before it was wet and guys love the wetness
@ralesshafelder nope this is his first child first experience and yea that's why it didn't make sense to me cuz I thought that was the purpose for men that have sex because its wet I thought Wetness was a good thing but apparently for him its too much wetness , but he is freaking about the whole thing he don't touch me ...like if the baby moves he never wants to touch it cuz he says it makes his stomach weak, I don't think he is gonna be able to handle me going into labor I am 38 weeks till Thursday and I'm having contractions right now and he is freaking out already (he might pass out 😂)
@autumnrenea757, lord idk what to say my kids father never was liked that but feeling baby move is weird but he could be nervous
@autumnrenea757 yea its the baby...nothing to worry about jus masterbate til bby here lok
@johnsonarriel24 yea I am lol but thank god doctor said baby will be here this week
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Definitely doesn't sound like a typical male response. Sounds like a dumb excuse to get out of it to me.