I’m seriously stressed (rant) so I live with my mother as I’m her care giver. Since February she’s been looking for a new place big enough to accommodate all of us. (She has section 8) I did all the foot work and found some beautiful houses, there was only one that I absolutely could not stand. For one the landlord was living in the place and something about her was just off. Fast forward to mid February when our lease is almost up my mother “felt pressured” (in her words) so she took the ONE house I was COMPLETELY against. Okay now may comes around and this landlord clearly did not pass inspection because it took till JUNE to move us in and this place is SO. Crappy for 1250$ a month I’ve been crying and frustrated since we moved here. The shower head is broke, there’s no washer/dryer (like promised), there’s an ant infestation, the bathroom smells like mildew, the refrigerator does not work & now our furniture will not be delivered until the 18th. So our clothes have NO WHERE to go & my mother is getting frustrated with me because I keep complaining about everything & she’s trying to bring my kids folded clothes in my room when I just got it organized for the baby & I told her they have to stay in bags because there’s NO WHERE TO PUT THEM. I seriously just want to block everyone out, that’s probably why I’m not going into labor how I should because I’m stressed the hell out. 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ I just wish she would’ve listened in the first place
@selandriac, I definitely will. Thank you
@ashleyp123, idk but if u explain everything nd have reasons they technically can’t make u stay if it’s technically unsafe nd u can go to court with the landlord cuz she or he is not fixing things Nd the windows have to work just give it a try
@selandriac, do the same rules apply for NJ? & I’m just nervous that they’re going to say we have to stay because she “passed inspection “
If u call housing and explain everything she actually can break her lease my mom is on section 8 also and u can break your lease if there is a very good reason
@sky105, the lease is for a year & she’s on section 8 so I don’t think she can break the lease but that’s exactly what I told her, it’s not safe smh oh and another thing my mom can’t open NONE of her windows and she’s in there with a boiler !
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
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Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
@ashleyp123, your welcome