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Ashley ✨
Ashley ✨
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I’m seriously stressed (rant) so I live with my mother as I’m her care giver. Since February she’s been looking for a…

I’m seriously stressed (rant) so I live with my mother as I’m her care giver. Since February she’s been looking for a new place big enough to accommodate all of us. (She has section 8) I did all the foot work and found some beautiful houses, there was only one that I absolutely could not stand. For one the landlord was living in the place and something about her was just off. Fast forward to mid February when our lease is almost up my mother “felt pressured” (in her words) so she took the ONE house I was COMPLETELY against. Okay now may comes around and this landlord clearly did not pass inspection because it took till JUNE to move us in and this place is SO. Crappy for 1250$ a month I’ve been crying and frustrated since we moved here. The shower head is broke, there’s no washer/dryer (like promised), there’s an ant infestation, the bathroom smells like mildew, the refrigerator does not work & now our furniture will not be delivered until the 18th. So our clothes have NO WHERE to go & my mother is getting frustrated with me because I keep complaining about everything & she’s trying to bring my kids folded clothes in my room when I just got it organized for the baby & I told her they have to stay in bags because there’s NO WHERE TO PUT THEM. I seriously just want to block everyone out, that’s probably why I’m not going into labor how I should because I’m stressed the hell out. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I just wish she would’ve listened in the first place

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selandriac

Selandria

Мама дочки (4 года)

@ashleyp123, your welcome

ashleyp123

Ashley ✨

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@selandriac, I definitely will. Thank you

selandriac

Selandria

Мама дочки (4 года)

@ashleyp123, idk but if u explain everything nd have reasons they technically can’t make u stay if it’s technically unsafe nd u can go to court with the landlord cuz she or he is not fixing things Nd the windows have to work just give it a try

ashleyp123

Ashley ✨

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@selandriac, do the same rules apply for NJ? & I’m just nervous that they’re going to say we have to stay because she “passed inspection “

selandriac

Selandria

Мама дочки (4 года)

If u call housing and explain everything she actually can break her lease my mom is on section 8 also and u can break your lease if there is a very good reason

ashleyp123

Ashley ✨

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@sky105, the lease is for a year & she’s on section 8 so I don’t think she can break the lease but that’s exactly what I told her, it’s not safe smh oh and another thing my mom can’t open NONE of her windows and she’s in there with a boiler !

Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.

I snooped through my boyfriends phone yesterday ( I have never done this is 5 years just had an intuition) and there…

I snooped through my boyfriends phone yesterday ( I have never done this is 5 years just had an intuition) and there were messages between our old landlord and her saying that he finally saw all of her and him saying did you like what you saw?? ( they just have seen naked pictures) and then before that my boyfriend says fucking over a desk is one of his fantasies and I just broke down, I didn’t cry right away but I was literally shaking and I confronted my boyfriend about it and he goes she’s not my type, I accidentally sent her a naked picture of both of us on Snapchat before and we were talking about that blah blah blah but I seen the messages and that is not what is seemed like, then after our conversation he goes into the bedroom and gets mad at me. I was bawling my eyes out but I had to keep it together because my sons were here. I was so hurt and I’m sure I’m going to think about it a lot..... especially since I’m due in 3 days and my emotions are a roller coaster right now.... i just need to vent because I can’t talk to anyone about this 😩

So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s…

So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that