I’m currently in my bed crying. Today’s my baby shower and I have to cook and clean. My SO was late to work and My brother decided not to sleep last night even though he is my helper. We are letting him stay here so he can get clean before joining the navy. But he told me he went with a friend and he slipped him Xanax and has weed to sell and he smelt and looked liked he smoked. So he is lying and brought weed into my house with my bfs kids 😥 and I went to my room and smelled pee bc my bfs son peed his bed again 😢😢😢 so already stressed and I’ve been up an hour.
@queenmeeks, our kids are here and he had Xanax too!!! Not just weed. I definitely have a problem with that.
@queenmeeks, he hasn’t even talked to a recruiter yet. He’s supposed to do that with our nana. But I said there is no point unless you stay clean! And he agreed and didn’t smoke at all! And then he disappeared all night and gets back at 6 am high as fuck 😥 I didn’t know what to do so I told him to go sleep and I’d wake him up before the party but oh my gosh! I mean I have no problem with weed. Me and my SO smoke (we’ll not me at all now 😊) but when we don’t have the kids. But we never smoke in the house or keep it out of a jar. But with Grey here (my brother) he has our house smelling like it and I’m going around Lysol lemoning everything
@sierrapw23 I understand being disappointed! I would be as well. Doesn’t make any sense to want to do something like join the military and essentially tow the line of throwing it away. When is he supposed to ship out?
@juggalette, @queenmeeks, it’s easy to kick him out I just don’t understand why he would do this when this is the end of a whole clean month with us and he was helping and so great with the kids and everything. He is supposed to go live with our nana tomorrow. So I’m like out of all days!? Why!? So I’m just taking deep breaths. He is 18 btw. He’s my baby brother so I’m just disappointed in him. And that he felt he had to lie.
Well you need to get your brother out of your home. Easier said than done I know, but he clearly has no respect for your home or anyone that resides in it. If he was serious about joining the military, he wouldn’t be slipping up. Better hope he cleans up before he ships out or he’s gonna get the boot before he even starts day zero.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I found out my bf smoked pot today and made him leave. He was 6 months clean. Idk what to do the house is so empty without him.
Ugh (long)
So yesterday I heard my sister and her Bf fighting. To the point I had to yell downstairs to stop it. (I heard my sister yell something, Something banging on the wall, then her Bf yelling) so I yelled 'what is going on in my house?!' The Bf yelled back my sister tripped him and he hit his head and wouldn't let him leave. I yelled to let him go. So she did. Two hours later he came back(to get some of his stuff) and came upstairs to tell me he was moving out. Ok fine. Idc (personally I...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
@sierrapw23 damn girl! This is tough all around because Xanax is in the picture. That’s an issue. He cant be a pill popper and be in the military. He has to want better for himself and he need not disrespect you, your children, or your home again with this shit.