In need of some advice,
Long story short I hate living at my boyfriends parents house. I’m like so depressed here. I have no privacy his mom is always trying to tell me what to do and how to do it and his brother and his family that lives here is driving me insane. LA rent is no joke, we have a newborn and a 5 year old and it’s tough. I want to tell him how I want to move back to another city where rent is way cheaper and we could afford more stuff, but I’ve brought it up before and it’s always an argument.. so I do you ladies think I should give him an ultimatum? Like, let’s gtfo or I’m getting tfo lol? Idk I cant live like this anymore
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I couldn't live with my sister either. I had to move in with my dad for a bit. Now I live around the seattle area and rent is expensive but I love it and will keep doing it because it is 2500ish miles away from my family and I dont like their drama
@essemmxo for my oldest it was. But he can do more and have more freedom here than in San Francisco
@nessaa, going to try the ultimatum hopefully he doesn’t get all upset...let’s see where it goes
@nessaa, ugh thank you it’s so hard because his parents promised to build an extra bedroom but it’s been more than a year and every time we ask what’s going on, we get a “we don’t know” . Literally I’m like the maid here no one does shit or buys anything but they’re quick to use my stuff and eat the food I buy. I’m so fed up😭
@bsandra, his grandma lives there! If I could even get him to talk about it 🙄 but he gets so worked up about it it’s annoying
@momof2prince, San Fransisco is wayyyy more expensive and so crowded 😭 I don’t blame ya , was the move hard ?
@ymoreno16, I’m totally looking near San Bernardino /: it’s just talking to him about it is so hard
Oregon has cheap rent.... this past summer there was a lot of ppl moving from different states, specially Cali.
We moved to Phoenix from San Francisco last year for the same reason.
Arizona is cheap but hot 😩 Riverside/Mira Loma/San Bernardino/Ontario/corona/micro in Cali are the cheapest cities I believe 🙄
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
What is the normal rent for a 1br / 1ba in your area? I’m currently paying $857 a month & I really feel like it’s overpriced
i always think ab how i’m gonna tell my Son one day that his father gave up on him before he was even here..😔🤞🏽💔
He thinks I’m cheating when I’m running my errands like it’s makes me sad and wanting to leave him 😢😢😢 cause he gets all mad and not wanting talk to after that even when I tell him what i was doing..
I learned it’s ok not to be ok thanks to @leonardsquared, I’m going to try remembering that whenever I feel like I’m failing as a mom because I can’t do the things I used to do.....I’m just sick of feeling sick 😔
Definitely San Bernardino area even cheaper high desert area Hesperia just seen a 3 bedroom for 980.
Barstow one bedroom $575. I couldn't even if it meant me leaving him with his family. I'd run out of a patience asking him. Good luck to you.