So found out im having my 12 weeks scan is 2 weeks time. on the 27th of this month 🙊🙈 scared but…

It's the best thing in the world to see your sweet baby on that screen, it's understandable you're scared too.. I wouldn't even look at the monitor until I saw my partner smile I go by his face every time but im sure it will all be fine and you'll love every minute 🤗 congratulations on your Buba

I can't wait.. just hearing some of the stories on here.. where found out they have lost it when go for scan or they loose bit later on.. And I always told my self i will feel calmer once the 12 scan done but now I'm even more scared. I won't buy anything coz I'm scared I'm gonna loose the baby.. then there that part where I'm so excited to meet her/him and to hurry up haha.. thank you lovely 😘

@katykins I am exactly the same once I stop worrying about one thing I start panicking about 20 other things it's completely normal to feel like a stress head .. In my experience anyway you're carrying the most important thing in your life inside your body and its a beautifully terrifiying time.. My midwife is probably sick of the sound of my voice.. Other people's angels may not have made it through but that doesn't mean yours won't chickie, find little ways to calm yourself when you feel like that I found talking to my son helps me a lot because even before he could i knew he was listening to me.. And if it ever gets to much feel free to message me and I'll try to help you as much as I can.. Pregnancy is full of stresses and unknowns but it's also full of amazing moments you'll be ok so will your little man/lady I have no doubt 😊

So glad I'm not the only one.. keep gettin pains in my tummy like just under boobs.. or my pelvic and I keep panicing and talking to my self.. "please keep fighting, come on little one" I feel daft lol.. I wanted to start buying things after my scan but I'm worried now haha.. thank you means a hell of alot 😘 daft question but I work full time we'll 35 hours a week.. And I'm worried becuase after baby born I will end up as full time mum til goes to nursery. But people are telling me i won't get much help benefits wise due to being in work til then..and im.worried for my partner having all bills and rent etc to pay by him self. Do u no anything about it? And I'm also moving away from work so I dont no how early of a maternity leave I can go on too.. just wounder if u may no and could help? 😘

Sorry for the late reply I had to go to my scan.. I'm not sure as I've mainly done bar work so it was different I don't know much about how benefits work as I've only just had to sign on myself ring your local job centre and they can tell you more about it and pain is beileve or not quite normal to an extent everything in your body is stretching and growing I get pain even now you'll be ok chickie everything will be fine xx

No don't be daft it's fine.. hope it went well and aww no worries thank you anyways and yeah midwife told me that too lol just a worry sometimes. That's my problem tho I worry too much hahaha.. thank you again by the way xxx