I'M SO SICK OF MY HUSBAND'S GIRLFRIEND!!!! 😡😡😡😡😡

Now before you go down the "wtf" road, let me explain. My husband's "girlfriend" (or his b*tch as I commonly refer to him) is one of his best friends since high school. I love the dude, I truly do...but he is just always around!!! It irks the sh*t outta me.

He is single, so he doesn't get that his MARRIED friend(s) can't just hang out with him on a f*ckin whim. Nor does he realize that the wives and girlfriends of those friends don't want him always showing up at our houses. There is a group on 8 of these bff's, and out of the eight 3 are married, and 4 are in serious relationships. As a group, us wives and gf's are soooo tired of him.

He has this habit of thinking that the women in his homeboys lives can just "watch" the kids, while they go out drinking and having fun. First of all...I don't watch my son, I RAISE HIM! I am his mother and not his f*ckin babysitter. Secondly, we don't all have the luxury of currently living with our parents aka in home babysitters. He can go out late and do WHATEVER bc his daughter is already with his parents. And NO I'm not watching ur f*ckin kid so u can go party with my husband!!!! (She's a great kid but it's the principal...not her)

Please keep in mind that he isn't a bad person, he's just f*ckin oblivious to how ppl in relationships function...bc he isn't in one. It's not my husband's job to entertain you when you're bored. I get that the boys miss each other from time to time...but who tf cares!!!! You think I don't miss my girls? Bc I do. But I'm too busy wifing/momming/adulting to go out with them sometimes (and so are they). I just deal with it and make plans. These assh*les try and tell us hours before they plan on going out...and it's not ok!!!

I told my husband all this and his response was to laugh a little and tell me he gets it but that his friend "just needs an outlet." 😒😒😒 To that I responded "no he needs a light," meaning he needs someone to plug in with him and keep his ass busy!!!! Aka a mf girlfriend!!!!!

Currently he is downstairs sleep on my couch, bc they went out with one of the other bffs for his bday (this was sanctioned by me as it was 10 minutes away and my mom is here with me). They got home at like 3am and all I can think is ugh I want him to leave. I don't mind them occasionally going out, but we've reached a point where seeing him irks my soul. Like why tf r u here bruh?

If he got a woman and wasn't always callin to see what we were doing...I'm sure I'd be waaaaay less irritated with him. But for now I cannot wait until he gets one...or until it's another wife/gfs turn in our group to deal with his ass.

Ok...rant over