Making D put Zach to sleep and he’s acting like he’s about to die 🙄 he was just up playing the Xbox but as soon as I mentioned putting Zach to sleep, he’s oh so tired... nope I’m not doing it. You better get your lazy ass up and be a damn father since it’s what you wanted... I think he just wanted to go around telling people he has a son without actually doing any of the parenting stuff. Since that’s all he does anyway
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@preciouslove, my just pretends he doesn’t hear me but when I do it myself he goes “why you didn’t ask for help”
@mitiacarolina3 yupp exactly im exhuasted and he will be happily on the Xbox and will rush to do what i ask in between games lol ugh!
@preciouslove, same here... it’s like my “work” doesn’t count since I stay at home.. I’m like at least you get to call out if your sick or not feeling good. At least you get breaks and lunch... at least you get to go to the bathroom when you want
@mitiacarolina3 My husband makes the excuse he works all day. I'm like so do i 24/7!
@preciouslove, and it’s a shame because we had to force his sister to do anything for her kids and he swore up and down he’d never be that way but as soon as I was in labor, I knew he wouldn’t do right
@mitiacarolina3 I Really Like How U Think! My husband is the same way!
It’s funny how he’s not tired anymore 😅 he’s in the living room on YouTube
@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, I’m so happy for you. Hopefully soon I’ll find the strength
@mitiacarolina3 I had no money or car or job when I left my son's father, I needed to leave and I decided it was best to get my life together after the fact since his father was abusive and I didn't want my son being around it like he was. Stayed with my mom for 6 months and managed to get back on my feet again.
@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, I’m getting there... my plan is to finish school, get my Bachelors, get a great paying job to support my son and myself and if I feel like leaving him I’ll have the money to do so
@mitiacarolina3 yea that's how I felt and I figured if I had to do things on my own I might as well be on my own.
@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, I’m to the point were if I don’t make him do it it just doesn’t get done until I do it myself and little by little I’m getting fed up
My son's father was the same way, he liked the idea of having a wife and child and liked how it made him look to his family but he wanted nothing to do with the responsibility and always had a problem with taking care of his son and we fought a lot.
@lovelymomma.000, he doesn’t give him baths. I have to remind him to feed Zach. He never actually puts Zach to sleep... I told him Zach might know your face and voice but why do you think I call you his father and not his dad? He doesn’t find comfort in my husband at all... he’s just his play buddy
@lovelymomma.000, girl I know. My husband would actually smell him needing a change and sometime pretends he doesn’t just so I have to change him
Same😥 every time I mention a diaper change I ALWAYS hear a long sigh and and get a miniature eye roll. It's not like he changes more than 2 diapers a day tho😧
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I don’t know what to do... my son is 9 months and he is lazy but aggressive... he wants to move around and he can turn around but he refuses to crawl and uses me to pull up to stand up... he doesn’t want to be bothered but wants the help ... he’s so peculiar...he can put himself to sleep but if I’m not in the room he’ll throw a fit until I pat him to sleep.. depending on how he feels... I’m loosing my mind because I don’t know how to deal with him
do you...
Clean up after your SO is done cooking? Or vice versa? DF was cooking and while he was cooking I unloaded the dish washer and hand washed the pot he had used and put dishes in the dish washer, so by the time he got his plate, dishes were done and left overs were in Tupperware on the counter just in case anyone wanted seconds and counters were wiped down. The room mate asked me why I do that, and I just say that's how I was raised. I always clean up after anyone cooks in the house, eve...
Definitely understand how you feel.