Not really. I dont know what it is.

Have you been stressed lately? If I'm stressed I have a much harder time getting there

?? @chickypoo!!! That's hilarious!

Maybe it's because the first time you didn't O it bothered you and you keep thinking about it while dtd which would be a total buzz kill.....or O kill ?

I read the title out loud while eating dinner and my 5 year old suggested we give you some of ours! By O's he means cheerios rofl...

Even during oral? Usually some good oral action always gets me there, also idk exactly what y'all do in the bedroom but sometimes slowing it down and adding some steamy kissing helps bring that connection back. If all else fails ride him into the sunset ? that's the easiest way to control if you climax or not.

Maybe try a different position. I can only climax if I'm on top. Its happened occasionally missionary and I was like oh wow but it usually happens when I'm on top.

Well, thats that lol

Thats the thing though. I know what I need and normally with him I get there. This is a new problem.

@five I am a few days shy of my period now but I wasn't the last time this happened.

@Hershey No drugs, or medications but I did quit drinking after drinking heavily for a couple months. I was going through a rough patch.

Having been married 10 years I have to say that the living feeling can come and go at times. Sometimes is physical hang ups, sometimes is mental, and occasionally it's hormonal. I'm at the point in my life now that of I'm within a few days of my period, I just can't get the lady bits to cooperate no mater what I do.

How frustrating! I hate the feeling after when you can't

I didn't climax the second time we dtd last night and i was pissed!! I truly hope you find your O. It's probably hiding in your nightstand drawer :)

Didn't read comments. Are you using any medications/drugs/antidepressants?

Try masturbation. Maybe alone. Most women who can't make it to the finish line usually don't know what they need to get there. Albeit, nip or clit stimulation... a different position... idk. If that doesn't work (which it should), try the vibrator.

@iris Ive already called they said 72 hrs

Yes, I used to drink quite a bit and drinking did make me feel pretty relaxed. I know three times isn't a lot but I'm worried its going to keep happening. Today he was like most women never come and that kinda pissed me off.

Maybe the drink relaxed you and now you're not as relaxed? Maybe have him give you a massage or take a warm bath.

Are you normally drinking when you dtd? Maybe you're not letting yourself get lost in the moment and overthinking it. A couple of times isn't a big deal though! ?

Idk but I would probably report it to the authorities after 24hrs.