Is monogamy dead? What do you ladies think?

Of course it isn't but I can seriously understand thats what it seems like nowadays smh

No

I really hope not.

If this doesn't work out Im just going to get a bunch cats.

I already have names picked out;

Paul,Simon,George, Princess Mc sassy pants.

No , i dont think some humans are meant to be kept to just one person.. but some are. ??

No.

I have a cat named Paul, she is the best.

Nope! My husband is 100% loyal, without a doubt. Good for him though because I don't know if any other woman would put up with his crap sometimes ? and he's not trying to take a risk and find out.

Rocky id rather have a cheating man than a bunch of cats ??

Not really. But I hate cats.

No but cheating is way more common than I think it used to be. The use of social media temptation is just everywhere and some people are just too weak to stay loyal. But I'm with rocky if Dh and I break up in getting more cars

No, but I think technology and social media make it easier to cheat. Or maybe that's why we hear about it more, people used to keep their problems to themselves instead of blasting it all over the internet.

I think it depends on the individual. DF is my forever person. His ex cheated on him their entire marriage. He has some pretty solid view on cheating.

He also knows I'm crazy and wouldn't mind going down on a murder charge.

Its not dead. Some people want to be committed and other don't. Now if only the ones who don't could be honest about it we could have a good thing going..

No it's not dead. I plan to be with my current SO till death do us part.

No it's definitely not

Def not! I know a lot of people say this but I can honestly say with 100% certainty that if he had to lay down his life for me or the kids, he would do it. He is honest and hardworking. He would literally do anything for us. I would never in a million years think he would ever cheat. We've been together 9 years and it has never crossed my mind. I wish every women had a man like him!

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Sometimes I think so. It really depends on how the individual was raised, their environment and who they surround themselves with. This isn't always true but if someone has nothing but cheating lying friends, it is easy to be influenced by that kind of ugly mentality and behavior because it can seem normal.

It probably also depends on what part of the world you live in. This isn't always the case but it could play a role in cheating. i feel like If you live in a urban city that has a pretty big night life scene going on, then it's probably easier for people not too commit to one person or not want to settle at all if they live in a city that is all about the party life style. In the end it really all comes down to the persons morals and how they were raised because if they have a good head on their shoulders, any temptation they will be smart enough to turn down.

Monogamy isn't for everyone. It's not gone it's just not for everyone. Cheaters don't count. Two consenting adults who have discussed and agreed upon terms about being open to others(however they see fit) can certainly have a happy healthy relationship full of love and commitment as long as they communicate properly.

No. My husband always tells me "Why would I need or want multiple women? You have a different personality for every day of the week!" thanks, dude.

It's not dead. Some people just choose partners that aren't ready to fully commit.

I don't want to be crass but I do feel strongly that monogamy is dead or close. I feel, and maybe it's just me but I just don't have a lot of faith in true love or monogamy or certain things that I've looked for in life.

I do believe in the love between parents and children and Creator and creation.

As far as monogamy I've never met a man who hadn't been unfaithful and I've always experienced and feared cheating.

Not in my house. Hubby and are 100% faithful to each other.

monogamy =/= being faithful.

i think of monogamy in terms of being as opposed to polygamy. it's about the number of partners you think each person should have. honesty doesn't factor here. so no, monogamy is very much alive.

whereas cheating is about dishonesty as opposed to honesty.

i think you mean to ask "is honesty in romantic relationships dead" more than "is monogamy dead". but my answer to that is also no.

It's not for everybody but it's certainly not dead.

Do you think everyone commits some form of adultery? Mental, emotional, physical?

Eta yes, not just monogamy but honesty, transparency.

This its slowly degrading

Yes! It's dead. Gone. Forget it. I don't believe that humans were wired to be monogamous. Every relationship I've ever been in, he cheated. I've just come to accept that it's just the way it is.

It's either that or I'm a really s*** ty woman. I don't think I'm that bad lol. I'm a little needy sometimes attention wise but not that bad! So idk if it's me or what ?

I believe so :(

No one can answer yes to this, since many of us have proof that it is not dead.

No. I think a lot of people just make bad choices. My parents have been married almost 40 years and many people in my family are going on 20+. How we answer that depends on the values and morals of our family and friends and others we surround ourselves with.

I don't think it's dead at all. My 18 year marriage can attest to that and we are looking forward to how ever many years that we have left on this earth together. I give all the credit to God. My husband and I are equally yoked and God is the very center of our marriage and family. If it wasn't for our love, faith and devotion in him whom created marriage my husband and I probably would not be together. We are so very grateful and blessed.

I do think you have to be logical about who you surround yourself with like kms said but, I just feel for some of us it doesn't happen for whatever reason. We don't find that dream guy.

No it's not. But impulse control and personal responsibility are severely lacking in more and more adults these days.