my boobs?
I know I'm going to get flack for this, maybe I deserve it. I Hate my boobs now. I used to have perky c cups that I was proud of. After almost a year of nursing and pumping my boobs are just... sad. Deflated and stretched. I know it's vain but I just get so depressed about it.
I don't think she gets it. I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.
Ok I know I've done a few of these but my friend posted this on FB and we're getting some hilarious results. This was my last text:
I know I've posted this before but when your water was leaking did it stay leaking or just with movements or what? Did you get contractions shortly after or no? I rolled out of bed and felt warmth leak out but Idk if it was possibly urine or what...never had it happen. It didn't smell like anything really...I know I should either call l&d or go in but I just want some experiences please. I want to wait a bit just in case it's nothing.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
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I feel you girl! I'm not even done breast feeding and they look so pitiful. I look back at old pictures and get so sad. I can't believe I ever hated them before. I was a freaking idiot!
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I convinced my hubs that I need a mummy makeover after I breast feed our 2nd thats due in Jan 2017. I am claiming my body back.
Melissa ·
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@ijust...'porny'? ?
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Same thing happened to me with my first. I didn't bf or pump and they still became very saggy. I hated myself to the point were I got breast implants ?
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I feel your pain looking at them makes me feel depressed I love that I was able to breastfeed for 13 months but my boobs take away my confidence ?
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I'm exclusively pumping for 14 weeks now. I had decent Bs (they never were perky), now I have these hideous melons (D/DD) on my small frame. I look porny all the time and I hate it. I'd rather have saggy Bs.
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I'm not a scientist, but the science says that the breast tissue is softened by pregnancy. Milk comes in whether a mom breastfeeds or not and that is when the change occurs. Age, genetics, and gravity do the rest.
Melissa ·
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Them
Melissa ·
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@ya ya I remember you ladies telling me that it wasn't nursing that caused sagging. You don't think the stretching of the Breast from full to empty several times a day changes then though?
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I don't know if it will help, but it wasn't the nursing or the pumping. It's been scientifically proven that it's a combination of genetics, pregnancy, and age. Mine hang practically to my belly button. I feel your pain.
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I know the feeling. I just try to remind myself that they have fed 2 babies and that's an amazing thing.
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@shi I feel ya girl! I have no boobs. Like even a AA feels big if it's not push-up. And it has to be like super push up like ones that cost me 70 bucks. The only time my girls looked womanly was when I was pregnant and even then they were small but at least I felt like there was something there. Now that I'm 7 months pp I'm flat as a board again. I haven't bought a bra in like two years cause now that I need new ones ain't nobody trying to spend that much on bras while not working! I wish they made bras for us little boobie women. I dream of the day I can walk into a target grab a $10 bra and be on my way.
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I am now pregnant for the third time. I only bf with my second for two weeks, and my poor boobies look like pancakes without a bra. I cant wear cute lingerie without under wire cause they sag so badly. I wanna hit the lotto so I can get a boob job after this baby hahaha. I can dream right
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I had A cups before having a baby and after I am nearly flat. Like can wear training bras they are so small and can't fit into size A unless it's push up lol. I guess I should be happy... At least the can't sag when they're that small lol.
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I'm 17 and my boobs look deflated balloons and I'm only on week 2 of breastfeeding lol. My boobs have never really been to "perky" or anything but they're definitely sad now lol. Sometimes it bothers me but for the most part I really don't care.
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I feel your pain. Mine were nice full 36DD. Now after 2 kids they are deflated 36Cs sometimes D. I'm pregnant with number 3 and I get almost depressed wondering if I'll have anything left after breastfeeding this one
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Flapjacks, tube socks, elf shoes, sand bags... ugh can't wait to get these puppies fixed!!
Before kids I was barely a B...after my second I went all the way to a DD. mine need some tlc
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Mine were a full nice set of D's now they just lay there. Horrible really. But SO loves them and it makes me feel a tad better. I didn't bf with my first two so yeah idk why they are like this. Sucks none the less.
Melissa ·
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True. They served their purpose. It's just one of the few things I genuinely liked about my body. I know that vanity gets you nowhere. I'm just realizing I'm getting old lol
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Boobs are for babies.
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Mine are sad too and I didn't even breastfeed or pump. ?
My boyfriend likes them though so that always help boost me up .
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I used to have the nicest boobs. 36DD on my small 125lb frame.
Then three kids happened and they are just so blah. However, I actually like how they are smaller now. I feel like overall, they make me look skinnier and I have more clothing options. Also, my husband still loves them. It took a while to accept them as they are and I contemplated getting a boob job to bring them back to their former glory... but I'm actually happy about them now.
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Mine are such sad little things too. Barely a B. After two kids, I guess it comes with the territory. For me it's more about my clothes not fitting like I want them too. Dh says he'll buy me new ones if I want. Boobs, not clothes ?