I thought deciding to stop treatment would be the hardest decision. Boy I was wrong. Now I have to know by 10 a.m. tomorrow if I want to sign a DNR or not. Lord I am not in the right state of mind for this. I went to the doctor today to tell him my decision about treatment. So now hospice is being set up. After all my planning with my funeral and stuff of that nature DNR never crossed my mind. It hitting me kinda hard right now
Kit-kat, I’ve been thinking of you alot! You and your family are in my prayers. 💕💕💕💕
Oh Kitkat, I'm so sorry you and your family are going through this. I will be praying for you and your family.
I have been thinking about you lately. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Hospice should be able to really talk it through with you. It is never, ever, set in stone. You can change it any time you want to, 3x a week. You can decide to be a DNRCCA Monday and then a DNR on Tuesday. It is hard and unfair, and no one would ever fault you if you have a change of heart from one day to the next.
So much love being sent your way.
I really have no words and I can't imagine, what you're going through. This breaks my heart. You'll be in my thoughts. ❤️
I am so sorry. It breaks my heart for you and I wish I could reverse this for you. I hate that you’re going through this.
Sending you tons of love, prayers and positive vibes. Your a beautiful strong woman and I hope you find peace in the decision made. Your an inspiration to us all.
Praying for you to find peace with this decision and sending you lots of love light Kit Kat 💜
I'm so sorry. I hope you find peace in whatever decision you make. You're so amazingly strong. I'll be praying for you. Keep your head up. ❤
Oh my! What a dreadful decision to have to make so young. Pray for strength for you.
You’re absolutely amazing for being so transparent about your experience.
awwww i'm sorry I cannot even imagine I pray for you and your family. I don't know you but I think of you often and admire your strength and courage
Praying for your strength and peace. You do not have to decide on anything you’re not ready for.
@wafflespancakes well I honestly don't know if I have to know by 10 tomorrow but that's what time hospice is coming out for their meeting so this is all new to me lol
I'm surprised they gave you a deadline for something like that. You should be able to take some time to consider your options. I'm so sorry you're facing another tough decision.
I'm praying for you to find peace with whatever decision you make. 🙏🏻
If you feel like it would help, you could try meditating on it. With each breath in, think or say out loud "wise" and with each breath out, "mind" to help you tap into what your gut/inner self believes you should do.
Sending love and prayers Kit Kat! 💕
I’m so sorry! I can’t even begin to imagine the struggling decisions you make. You are very brave and strong to do all the decisions beforehand so your family doesn’t have to. You’re in my thoughts
😔 I don’t even know what to say. I couldn’t imagine how hard this is for you and your family. I wouldn’t sign it I don’t think. I don’t know though I’ve never had to make a decision like that before. I’m so sorry and I’ll be praying for you! ❤️
If you’re not ready for that emotionally you can be a full code and sign the DNR when you’re ready to. ❤️
I am so sorry kitkat. You are a very brave and strong woman. Any choice you make is the right one. I will keep you in my prayers.
I think I know the right decision but it goes against everything I ever wanted. But then again I always thought I would die of old age lol. I was going to be that little old lady that never wanted to be taken off life support and I used to tell my sister she would have to come see me no matter what every day because I was never dying. Lol but now I don't want to put it on my family when to decide.😔
I can’t imagine having to make that decision. You’re a strong, strong lady, I’m sure whatever you decide it will be the right decision. ❤️
Oh no I’m so sorry that’s so tough. I’m sure u know the right choice in your heart
I'm surprised they gave you a deadline for something like that. You should be able to take some time to consider your options. I'm so sorry you're facing another tough decision.