Feeing a little broken
After my last miscarriage and until now Iv put on two stone and I look like shrek
I’m soooo conscious about myself I don’t really want to go out
When I do go out it’s not for long as I can’t cope feeling so disgusting
I feel so distant from my partner and feel he would be better off with someone else when he looks at other woman.
Is it possible to lose weight while pregnant at all?
I would speak to your midwife but it is possible, you just need to do it safely and make sure you're getting enough food for you and baby. I'm currently nearly 35 weeks and I weigh less than I did at my first midwife appointment, I haven't been trying to lose weight either.
I hope you're okay x
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Creeped out!
A new guy at work just tickled the back of my neck! I cringed and told him "Don't ever touch me, that weirds me out!" On Monday he pulled my braid as I was grabbing parts for him, I also told him don't ever do that. Ugh. I don't feel comfortable working with him EVER! A coworker told me that when she walked past he said "what's cooking good looking". I feel he doesn't deserve to work here. I can't feel like I'm going to be harassed at work. Like who does that?? I'm so creeped ou...
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
Strippers.
How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont approve of it for my SO, as he already doesn't like too go. But i feel like if he wants to see women stripping on poles, I can be his own personal stripper. Lol ? I am just curious to see what others feel and think!
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
I know exactly how you feel hun! I had two miscarriages. I know it can totally break your heart. But you must keep strong and be positive for the future! Pregnancy is definitely not the time to go on a weight loss diet. Don’t try to lose weight during your pregnancy as this may not be safe for your developing baby! However you will gain less fat weight during pregnancy if you exercise (long steady walks, go swimming- it’s a total body workout). Perhaps try to eat as healthy as possible. Minimal carbs, lots of fresh food only and drink water only(plenty of water).
Also Meditate! It helps connect with the baby and it’s a massive stress reliever.
Why don’t you treat yourself to a facial or go to the hairdresser. I bet you will feel fab after that. Hope that helps hun. Keep strong 💪🏻 xx