First time having a baby & I don’t want to TEAR 😰
The dr can carefully make an easy small cut that heals real fast. Ask when you get to hospital. I didn't even feel it cuz contractions where all I felt.
It may suck at the time...but talk about VIRGIN afterward....your man will thank you for it! Lmfao
Most people do. If it's bad it sucks but honestly you'll be too tired and busy to notice much.
I've read using coconut oil to massage yourself helps the elasticity of your body to not rip!