I hate complaining but I hate when Im out with my MIL and any time Emilia fusses she says she’s spoiled. Not only that but she wants to hold Emilia when she’s clearly reaching out to me thus making her cry even more.
SCAM ALERT!!!! She blocked me when I called her out!! She’s a fraud!!
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
I’ve posted about my defiant toddler many times before but I’m really at a loss now. She deliberately disobeys. Like, she knows what “no” means and if she’s doing something she knows she’s not supposed to I can ask “do you want to go in timeout?” And she’ll answer “no” and SOMETIMES stop.. I can’t take her anywhere cause she refuses to listen. She runs wild, screams, throws tantrums etc. At home she’s just as bad and absolutely nothing I do or say helps. Timeout doesn’t work, hand poppings don’t work, a pop on the butt doesn’t work, I’ve tried getting down to her level and calmly explaining things or trying to make sure she knows that I understand her emotions and things like that but I’m not even kidding when I say nothing works with her. I’m constantly telling her no and even though she knows she’s going to get into trouble she will do it anyways and then cream this blood curdling scream when she does get in trouble. I’ve raided Pinterest for days, write everything down, tried everything I found... idk what else to do. Everyone keeps telling me it’s “terrible twos” or “she’s just strong willed” or that it’s normal for her age and all of that might be true but there’s gotta be some kind of something that will help me teach her to listen to me and such.
Random but I hate when guys rush into sex. It's like one kiss and bam it's out. Hold on wait a minute damn it I'm still graham cracker dry 😩😩😩😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My friend got a small tattoo last week. It probably took less then 20 mins at the most!! And she’s 26weeks pregnant. She posted her new tattoo on fb and keep getting hate comments on being a horrible mom that doesn’t care if she’s pregnant. This is ridiculous!!! She deleted the post and people still are talking about it on Facebook. PEOPLE GETTING A TATTOO DOESNT AFFECT YOUR BABY AT ALL!! Especially when it’s below the knee and not anywhere near or around the belly... get this through your heads and stop shaming and disrespect a mom. Get your facts straight and even then mind your own dam business!!
Mar·
Мама дочки-младенца
@momma_dee, exactly 😭
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Мама троих детей
If I were you as soon as she starts saying any comments like that I would calmly say she's not spoiled EVERY baby fusses and continue to pick her up and if she tries to hold your daughter say she clearly wants mama right now. Once she calms down then I would let her hold her. I hope you are able to set your foot down with her! I know it may be hard and awkward even but she's YOUR baby not hers, she needs to remember that!
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@mariagtorresr2710, girl you dont even have to explain yourself. You do you and if she happens to ask then give it to her. Some MILs have serious boundary and respect issues
Mar·
Мама дочки-младенца
@momma_dee, yes I need to start telling her how I feel I guess or something bc it’s driving me crazy
Mar·
Мама дочки-младенца
@lovefaithkindness, @babeylarissa, I need to be more Assertive 😭😭😭
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Smh nope. Your MIL is crazy. Emilia is not spoiled, you get her when you want & take her from your MIL when you want 💯
Robyn·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mariagtorresr2710 @babeylarissa exactly you dont want your children to feel like they can get away with it at grandma's house. They will become ungrateful. My hubby's nephew is like that. Super duper ungrateful all he wants to play is video games. And tries to weasel video games from grandma when others tell him no
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Мама дочки (1 год)
@lovefaithkindness, exactly!! @mariagtorresr2710, & dont listen to people that say "its the grandparents u have to let them see the kids" or "let them do what they want their the grandparents thats what their for to spoil them" NO u can cut off anybody from seeing ur kids!
Robyn·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@babeylarissa exactly she's the grandparent not the parent. And the parent over rules the grandparent. Like what discipline i force at home is what i expect to be forced at her home. (Which is time out). I hate being undermined with my kids. It is probably one of the things that will make me explode
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@lovefaithkindness, yeah see thats good! but with my mil we've tried talking & arguing she just doesnt get it she says ok & then does it anyways so if shes not gonna listen shes not gonna see us or my daughter
Robyn·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@babeylarissa me and my mil are super close now but she knows how I feel and she knows if she over steps that I won't be taking my kids over there anymore. But weve been good after I snapped at her for overstepping
Kenya Larissa D. 🎀·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@lovefaithkindness, me too lol to the point where i dont speak to mine
Robyn·
Мама двоих (младенец)
She obviously needs boundaries. And put in her place. She is your daughter. She isn't your mil daughter. She needs to take a step back I had to do the same thing with my mil