Okay ladies I need your help. I want to know if i am wrong to feel pissed off at my in-laws. Okay so tomorrow is my daughter birthday well they asked us of we could go see then ...

Monique Murehead

Okay ladies I need your help. I want to know if i am wrong to feel pissed off at my in-laws. Okay so tomorrow is my daughter birthday well they asked us of we could go see then last weekend because they said they are getting to old to drive down here and there knees are really bothering them and we couldn't due to my husband having to work and we only have one car working right now. Well they texted my husband saying they were coming in to town just for the day and leaving tomorrow morning and if we could have lunch this all happened last night so i had to change my plans for today well come to find out they only came in to town for there friend son because he was going to be home alone for a week by himself and he is having a hard time because one of his friends passed. I feel bad and happy they are taking him so he is not by himself but in a way like there friend mean more to them then there own granddaughter they would have never came down if he wasn't going to be by himself. This after they keep saying they cant do trips like that because they are getting old and they just got back from a trip to the beach.

02.06.2018

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@selena_lalu yeah they do. I dont see how they can do that once my mom found out i was pregnant the first time even thought she was mad she came down almost ever other weekend to see my daughter. After se was born i al most couldn't get rid of her lol still cant i mean if she goes one day she like what wrong? So she has a better with my family. I have tried but i am not going to try anymore if they come see her they come and she can see them when we can go see them. Hell if you go to San Antonio you would be close for me!! I would come see you. Lol yeah do what best for your family. Were in Texas were you born?

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selena_lalu

@lillynellasmom, oh okay. I’m a military wife and feel like our mindsets are very similar. I’ve been in WY for 6 years like I said, and not ONE of my family members have ever visited me. I do understand that 12 hrs is far away and sometimes they struggle with money, but gosh damn. I’ve driven and flew to Texas about 20 times the past 6 years to visit them, and not ONE damn time has the love ever been given back. My husband recently got to choose orders to San Antonio, or Phoenix AZ. And I considered San Antonio to be 3 hrs away from family, thinking now they’ll visit forsure. Then I decided I wanted to do something cool for my family since we’re still young, so we’re moving to Phoenix 😎.
They didn’t want to visit before, so no need to take them into consideration. Plus we can move to Texas later in life (that’s where I was born and raised). Family sucks sometimes 😑 lol

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mom2les

@selena_lalu No i was an oil field wife now a mechanics/ manager wife lol

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mom2les

@selena_lalu yes but it makes me sad because my daughter always ask to go see them and we go when we can and we've asked him to come down here and every time they say they're going to they change their minds or they go to their friend's house and then they don't spend time with her and then they get mad that they don't have quality time with her they want her to also spend the night but I mean she barely even spend the night with my mom without sometimes calling and asking to come back to me and they live 2 hours away and I know if they take her and she starts crying and wants to come home I'm the one who's going to have to drive to go get her they will not bring her back and they don't understand that. That's also why it pisses me off that they can do all this other stuff and won't come down here to get that quality time so she can go to their house yes and no she's okay and safe and get to know them better.

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selena_lalu

@lillynellasmom, are you a military wife?

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selena_lalu

@lillynellasmom, oh okay, well I would definitely be in my feelings about that! I go through similar shit with my sister. I’ve lived in Wyoming for 6 years and she’s never visited me (she lives in Texas). Yet every few weeks she’ll drive to visit her boyfriend who she’s been with for one year to visit him while he’s on his work days (he works in the oil field so he’s gone for 28 days at a time). Granted her driving to see him is 3 hrs to and from. And driving to see me is 12 hrs to and from. Just pisses me off that in 6 years I haven’t had one visit, but in one year she’s drive to be with him 4 times (and yes they live together on his off days). She’s even driven to New Orleans to meet his family. I get salty af, but just let it go cause people will go out of their way for who they want, and that’s when they show their true intentions and colors being apart of your life.

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mom2les

@taylorsmommy1017 I would actually prefer them to do that. I wouldn't be so pissed off.

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mom2les

@paperplane @selena_lalu Idk i think its also finally getting to me thet they play this i am getting old and cant come to you after 3 years even after we lived like 20 mins away for a year and they would not come to see us or our daughter and them complaining they don't have a good relationship when they don't try to come see them and we go see them every time we can and have the money. I think i have had it.

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mom2les

@selena_lalu oh they already have another one planed witg other trips even after they said they are getting old and said they are selling there rv but they just talk all this bullshit. Even my husband said oh there i am geeting old speach or this again. It not the first time they have said this to us.

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mom2les

@paperplane the only reason why they came to see us for lunch was because they were driving by thave have done this many time before as well they go see there friends and make us come see them and when we go they complain that they dont get time with the girls. That why i am finally getting mad because they do all this driving around to see friends and or do what they want but we always have to go to them they never come to us and complain about it.

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selena_lalu

I don’t think your wrong for feeling a type of way, but I don’t think you should let it get to you so much. Maybe their knees really are hurting and they felt they had to come down to get the son cause it seems like a reasonable excuse to go out of their way for. They did reach out to have lunch so y’all were important to make sure they saw before they left. Maybe give them the benefit of the doubt., but they better not be going on anymore beach trips 😡 lol.

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paperplane

It sounds like they where trying very hard to see you guys. And also sounds like they were trying to do right by the boy on his own. Almost like he needed them more then you guy do. Maybe just hormones? Try looking at it form other people's point of view before you get to upset

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