@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Make your own breakfast! At what age do you think a child should be making their own breakfast? I have a 10 year old and I think he is perfectly capable of making himself breakfast. It doesn't take rocket science to put some waffles into the toaster, or microwave some pancakes. My husband insists that he needs to have breakfast made for him because if we left it up to him he wouldn't eat enough and it would take him forever.
My husband sucks, just because he works 7 days a week now because it's summer he does not want to go to a concert we we're invited to over a month ago. We never do ANYTHING with other people. The whole 7 years we have been together I can count on one hand how many times we have done something with friends. I hate that he is so lazy and acts his old age. He thinks because he works he does not have to do anything else. Then I asked if I could go and he still said no because then he would have to watch the kids. My friend then offered to pay for a sitter. Still said no. He said he might as well go out and do something by himself tonight and leave me home with the kids before he lets me go with them. Says I get more time to myself then he does, god I hate how he always compares everything. Like he does this more and I don't do this, like work. Yes I do work, I take care of our children and the house. I want a life again, and do stuff like most people do. I'm sick if being home and just running errands. Ok no one get mad because letting off steam, thanks
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Paper Plane·
It sounds like they where trying very hard to see you guys. And also sounds like they were trying to do right by the boy on his own. Almost like he needed them more then you guy do. Maybe just hormones? Try looking at it form other people's point of view before you get to upset
Selena laluangphet ·
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I don’t think your wrong for feeling a type of way, but I don’t think you should let it get to you so much. Maybe their knees really are hurting and they felt they had to come down to get the son cause it seems like a reasonable excuse to go out of their way for. They did reach out to have lunch so y’all were important to make sure they saw before they left. Maybe give them the benefit of the doubt., but they better not be going on anymore beach trips 😡 lol.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@paperplane the only reason why they came to see us for lunch was because they were driving by thave have done this many time before as well they go see there friends and make us come see them and when we go they complain that they dont get time with the girls. That why i am finally getting mad because they do all this driving around to see friends and or do what they want but we always have to go to them they never come to us and complain about it.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@selena_lalu oh they already have another one planed witg other trips even after they said they are getting old and said they are selling there rv but they just talk all this bullshit. Even my husband said oh there i am geeting old speach or this again. It not the first time they have said this to us.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@paperplane @selena_lalu Idk i think its also finally getting to me thet they play this i am getting old and cant come to you after 3 years even after we lived like 20 mins away for a year and they would not come to see us or our daughter and them complaining they don't have a good relationship when they don't try to come see them and we go see them every time we can and have the money. I think i have had it.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@taylorsmommy1017 I would actually prefer them to do that. I wouldn't be so pissed off.
Selena laluangphet ·
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@lillynellasmom, oh okay, well I would definitely be in my feelings about that! I go through similar shit with my sister. I’ve lived in Wyoming for 6 years and she’s never visited me (she lives in Texas). Yet every few weeks she’ll drive to visit her boyfriend who she’s been with for one year to visit him while he’s on his work days (he works in the oil field so he’s gone for 28 days at a time). Granted her driving to see him is 3 hrs to and from. And driving to see me is 12 hrs to and from. Just pisses me off that in 6 years I haven’t had one visit, but in one year she’s drive to be with him 4 times (and yes they live together on his off days). She’s even driven to New Orleans to meet his family. I get salty af, but just let it go cause people will go out of their way for who they want, and that’s when they show their true intentions and colors being apart of your life.
Selena laluangphet ·
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@lillynellasmom, are you a military wife?
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@selena_lalu yes but it makes me sad because my daughter always ask to go see them and we go when we can and we've asked him to come down here and every time they say they're going to they change their minds or they go to their friend's house and then they don't spend time with her and then they get mad that they don't have quality time with her they want her to also spend the night but I mean she barely even spend the night with my mom without sometimes calling and asking to come back to me and they live 2 hours away and I know if they take her and she starts crying and wants to come home I'm the one who's going to have to drive to go get her they will not bring her back and they don't understand that. That's also why it pisses me off that they can do all this other stuff and won't come down here to get that quality time so she can go to their house yes and no she's okay and safe and get to know them better.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@selena_lalu No i was an oil field wife now a mechanics/ manager wife lol
Selena laluangphet ·
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@lillynellasmom, oh okay. I’m a military wife and feel like our mindsets are very similar. I’ve been in WY for 6 years like I said, and not ONE of my family members have ever visited me. I do understand that 12 hrs is far away and sometimes they struggle with money, but gosh damn. I’ve driven and flew to Texas about 20 times the past 6 years to visit them, and not ONE damn time has the love ever been given back. My husband recently got to choose orders to San Antonio, or Phoenix AZ. And I considered San Antonio to be 3 hrs away from family, thinking now they’ll visit forsure. Then I decided I wanted to do something cool for my family since we’re still young, so we’re moving to Phoenix 😎.
They didn’t want to visit before, so no need to take them into consideration. Plus we can move to Texas later in life (that’s where I was born and raised). Family sucks sometimes 😑 lol
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@selena_lalu yeah they do. I dont see how they can do that once my mom found out i was pregnant the first time even thought she was mad she came down almost ever other weekend to see my daughter. After se was born i al most couldn't get rid of her lol still cant i mean if she goes one day she like what wrong? So she has a better with my family. I have tried but i am not going to try anymore if they come see her they come and she can see them when we can go see them. Hell if you go to San Antonio you would be close for me!! I would come see you. Lol yeah do what best for your family. Were in Texas were you born?
Selena laluangphet ·
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@lillynellasmom, San Angelo. You?
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@selena_lalu Austin
Selena laluangphet ·
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@lillynellasmom, oooh I love Austin!
Keebs·
It was an emergency situation with a friend passing. They didn’t know when they asked you to come down that that would happen to the young man. It wasn’t done intentionally.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@keebs it not an emergency situations i mean his parents are going out of town and just leaving him home alone. If this just happen i know they would just leave him home alone.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@selena_lalu yeah it getting crazy now because so many people are moving here.
sweetsap·
Yup, I'd feel some type of way. The same way they wanted you guys to drive there, their friend's son could have found transportation there. Just like how they made the sacrifice to come get the friend's son, they could have made the sacrifice to come see my children.
Monique Murehead·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
@sweetsap88 he can drive himself he is 17 maybe 18 now and like his mom and dad are leaving him home alone too so like why could they stay at least tomorrow and say we came down for both not just him or we wouldnt even have came like thanks for make her you second choice.
sweetsap·
@lillynellasmom that's what I said, the son could have found his own way. Heck, his parents could have dropped him off before they left. If they wanted to see you guys they could have made the trip. The bad knees become an excuse when they are driving down your way to pick up a friend.