Just venting sorry if it’s all over the place

Just venting sorry if it’s all over the place

So my Fiancé loves video games if he could play every minute of the day he would. He works 12 hr shifts over night Sunday-Tuesday and add a Saturday every other week. So on his off days I like to have dinner and at least sleep together. (We don’t need to go to bed at the same time) but he doesn’t come to bed until like 9am-10am. So we don’t see much of each other. I’ve never been a fan of video games and was never around them until we met. The thing that frustrates me most is he has these headphones he wears while playing and can’t hear anything! I have to walk into the same room as him and yell or wave my arms for him to notice I’m there and it drives me nuts! Our daughter is at that age where she shoves anything into her mouth so if she chokes he wouldn’t even notice. So last night I brought up the idea of him buying new headphones maybe with just one earpiece and microphone and he flipped out on me saying he hears everything I’m just over reacting and that he’ll do what he wants with his stuff