I'm really debating on whether or not I should have a baby shower. I didn't have one with my first mostly because I wasn't in the same state as my family and my husband's family is awful and don't like me because I'm Hispanic. But now it doesn't seem as special since we are having another girl and no one ever comes to anything I plan anyways. So it just has me kind of down and out! I mean a few family members may come, but it's not more than 3. And I don't really have any friends so I don't see a point.
@mothermother my mom and I were just talking about doing something like that! Though she suggested a BBQ at the park with no decorations just some food and maybe a Little cake. I really like that idea just something small and simple that can be enjoyed by us even if no one comes
Another option would be to go to a restaurant and enjoy some family time and celebrating this baby.I know what you mean it does suck but enjoy the time with the members that come. But every pregnancy is special. so do you don't worry about anything else.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I really need to vent I really don't know what to do so as you might know I went to the hospital on Thursday to see why I was bleeding and having contractions well I found out I have an std please don't judge me I thought I was happily married we have been together for 8 years we have 3 boys and 1 on the wAy my question is what would you guys do in my situation I have my house but I don't work and well no one will hire me being preggo please help me I feel so alone I can't talk to anyone becaus...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't h...
Let's talk about SEX! So I'm 16 weeks and my desire has not come back yet. My hubby is being so patient with me but I know how he really is. I'm sure it's killing him. I just don't have the desire to do it. Any advice?
Yes, wish you the best 😊😊