I know of someone who didn’t even try to breastfeed cause they thought it was weird . I don’t get it?!! 🤣🤷🏼♀️
@sunflowerfields, at first we were using the lanoshish or whatever but now we use the medela ones
@walkers-mom, which shield do you use ? I tried three different ones but it never worked
@sunflowerfields, mine are flat too that’s why we use the shield 😊😊😊
@fuhgeddaboudit, oh I’m getting a lift after this, I’m not physically having anymore kids.
@walkers-mom, I’m glad you did that. It shows you’re a fighter I had the worse time for the first two months trying to get my daughter to latch because I have inverted/ flat nipples. My supply went up for a couple of months until I went back to work and she had to go on formula again around eight months. I was crying every day. Super depressed and I do think that’s part of why my milk didn’t come in full force in the beginning. I tried shields but that didn’t work, she never was able to pull enough from it. No one said you have to have protruding nipples to breastfeed.
@walkers-mom, I wish I could have done it 😢 oh well.
@damn.it.red, pumping is so exhausting! I did it till he was 2 weeks old! I’m so glad i got a nipple shield and had him latch again or else he’d be on formula by now
I would have Brest fed had my youngest not had her cleft and shit. Pumping didn’t work for me at all.
@fuhgeddaboudit, my goal is 6 months and we’ll see where we’re at from there! But so far so good 🤷🏼♀️ even tho he uses a nipple shield
@fuhgeddaboudit, right, sure is a lot of work but I’m glad i didn’t give up when it got rough in the beginning

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@walkers-mom, oh I didn’t try medela, I’ll look into it