After 3 years of just my daughter I’m freaking out about baby number 2 like how different will it be ? Will my first be jealous. How much harder is it? It’s crazy how the emotions make you feel in the moment

I did soo much and they’re 4.5 years apart as well.

It hit me so hard about 2 weeks before I was due, I was literally crying everyday just thinking oh no it’s going to be so hard going back to newborn stage, thinking my son would resent his brother for missed attention, I didn’t want my eldest to feel left out or that I didn’t love him as much. My son was 7.5 when I had my second and it had always been just the two of us. Turns out a brother was all he ever wanted and he was the happiest and proudest big brother ever. They are best friends!

Once baby gets here it so goes away and you think god my hormones must have been ragging!!

Yes, it hits me every now and then. So I'm taking this last couple month to just do fun things with my boy who is 5. Spend all the time I can with just him going to the beach or water park and picnics in the yard. I'm soaking up all of it :)

I did. Mine were 4.5 years apart, I made sure to do lots of fun things with him the summer before I had her because he was also starting kindergarten. I had her on his 3rd day of school and felt so guilty for not being the one to take him lol but it was all fine.

yes. I did when I had my 2nd my oldest was just 2 and a half when had her brother. I remember the morning I went to get induced I cried because I wasn't the first person she was gonna she when she woke up I felt so guilty, but the minute she met her brother all that went away and it felt like heaven 😊 hang in there momma it's totally natural 💖