Okay mommas I need help! My SO’s mom doesn’t want to know the gender of the baby (what ever she wants of course she is the sweetest woman I’ve ever known!) so we were thinking of having a small baby shower for parents and super close family. Then the gender reveal the the baby shower where everyone knows the gender. Basically the first one just for her. What I’m thinking is don’t have a registry or anything for the first baby shower but have a small get together for the baby so his mom can enjoy it. She wants to go so bad but wants to wait till the baby is born to find out the gender. Any ideas or thoughts of what I could do to make this go smoothly!? I feel 2 baby showers is too much for family. But maybe they will be excited?