Okay mommas I need help! My SO’s mom doesn’t want to know the gender of the baby (what ever she wants of course she is the sweetest woman I’ve ever known!) so we were thinking of having a small baby shower for parents and super close family. Then the gender reveal the the baby shower where everyone knows the gender. Basically the first one just for her. What I’m thinking is don’t have a registry or anything for the first baby shower but have a small get together for the baby so his mom can enjoy it. She wants to go so bad but wants to wait till the baby is born to find out the gender. Any ideas or thoughts of what I could do to make this go smoothly!? I feel 2 baby showers is too much for family. But maybe they will be excited?
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I would save the baby shower till everyone knows the gender. Maybe have a small get together with just family and not expect presents. And then have your baby shower where you can get the presents and all that. Expecting gifts on both would be a no for me tho.
You could do a small, intimate BBQ with her and family members. Just super fun and informal. Then do the full blown baby shower where you send out the invites and do the gifts.
You could do one and make the gender reveal as part of your thank you gifts. For my showers I gave out little bags of candies with M&Ms and what not with little baby rattle trinkets. You could do that and make the goodies the color for the gender and just not give her one. Or give her one with both colors so she doesn't know. Idk just an idea lol
I would just do parents at the first one and just have a dinner or something and invite family and friends to the second one where the gender is known.
What my cousin did was she did a reveal and then had the actual baby shower party of the gender of her baby.