Should I Leave My Abusive Relationship for My Child's Sake?

@meggcragle, that stinks that they’re full :/ maybe another county or something??

Aren’t you the bread winner? You said he doesn’t work right? Get yourself a studio apartment or stay with a friend or family !! Get out

Talk to your landlord and tell him you are leaving a domestic violence situation. The rent should not be held against you. Clean out your bank account so he has no access to your money (or cut his card up that has access to your account) Pack everything you can in your car and go to someone you trust. Call all the women's shelters in your area. You can do this!

I just saw your comment about making him leave. You can ask an officer to come to your house while you tell him to leave. Change your locks that same night.

@meggcragle your a good mama. Im doing good, talk to you tomorrow good night ❤

@briannalynn547, yes but mainly all full. I will figure something out over the weekend weather having him removed from my house or by him simply just leaving but it won’t happen with out a fight and if that’s what I gotta do for my son and I to be happy then I will do it

@tyrellp, I’m trying gotta do it for my son that’s the only one on my mind now 😘 I’ll message you tomorrow when I can I hope you are doing good❤️

Does your area have a program called daisy? Or any domestic violence shelters ? I’m sure you can find one

Hey lady, i was just thinking about you the other day reading your post hurts my heart. Your a strong beautiful woman and you can get through this 😘

@sherrynygirl, thank you ❤️

@meggcragle it's okay it's always woman like you strong yet inside they try to weaken us,control us,,and blame us for their faults.. every city has shelters that take in women and children fast it make his ass leave ;! And u stay in the home u bust your ass for ..stay strong heart

@sherrynygirl, yes since having my son I have opened my eyes so much. This is the man I couldn’t go a day without I thought we would get married and die old together but nope I believe what my heart wanted and not what my eyes saw. It’s hurts so bad bc I never thought I’d let a man do this to me I always thought I was so strong but here I am in the situation I’m in

@meggcragle I was a young teen at 16 Mom,,married at 18 to him he became a monster. I divorced him at 21...I met a man that loved my 1st like his own we are together this April 17yrs.. Yes abuse is abuse I have been in your shoes honey not easy to start over and leave. Love that little healthy baby Soo much to get courage to leave his ass.Any man that puts his hands on a woman is not a real man! You seem like you go above and beyond for him and have tried Soo much he's the blinded one He doesn't appreciate you. Your the mother to his children he needed to start respecting you a long time ago...big hugs for you &your safety ...

@bcsweetie, I went and got a pfa last year but he sweet talked me out of it that I’ll never do it again blah blah blah. And no no where to go. I shouldn’t have to leave my home bc my son will not have a roof over his head he just needs to go. It’s been awhile since he has put his hands on me but the emotional abuse the verbal abuse sure is still here. I’ve worked the whole 4 years I worked 14 hour days while being pregnant to have money while he sat home and did nothing but it’s my fault we’re behind on rent it’s my fault we’re having issue with the registration on my car it’s my fault I do nothing for him but yet I take care of his 4 year and birthed his second child and have not gotten a single bit of help from him since he’s been born. He’s words are you do nothing for me take away the cooking the cleaning the washing clothes you do nothing for me so I haven’t cooked since Tuesday I haven’t cleaned up I did do laundry bc my son and i need clean clothes but then today it’s you plan on making dinner tonight? You plan on cleaning up a little bit everything is my fault.