Idk why I’m feeling like this..
some of you might remember my post about my dad only having so long to live because of his throat cancer. Well he passed away on Tuesday, and I didn’t go to see him. He wasn’t answering anyone’s phone calls or messages, so my sister decided she wouldn’t go. I just don’t know how to feel 🙁 Also, my mom got all of her teeth pulled because most of them were loose and aching (she has a disease that caused it). She got dentures and she wasn’t wearing them the other day because they were hurting her. It just made me sad to see my mom with no teeth 😢😢 I feel like so much is changing for me right now, idk..
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I’m so sorry for your loss my thought & prayers are with you & your family ❤️
My deepest condolences! I’m truly sorry for your loss. Things happen all at once. Sending you lots of love and prayers! ❤️
I’m so sorry about your dad! Maybe you can write him a letter and read it aloud. Just to kinda get some closure for yourself. He will hear you ❤️
And I’m sorry about your moms teeth! We take so much for granted. I totally get why it’s upsetting. It’s hard to let reality set in that our parents are and will age. Especially when we still feel like we’re in our twenties lol
Big hugs! I’m so sorry. We are here for you!
@vintageteaspoon, I understand. My moms teeth were extremely loose for many years before she had them removed. Once I was visiting her for the summer and we were doing dishes together. She playfully wiped suds on my head so I did it back and lightly brushed my hand down her face with bubbles. It made her teeth bleed and it was haunting for me. It’s so hard to see people we love hurt, but you are right, she is on the mend. Soon she will heal and then the memories of all of this can fade and be replaced by better, new ones. 💕
@oddie, @phoebesmommy, That is exactly how I feel 😞😞 I hate it sooo much. I didn’t let my mom see that it bothered me or anything at all, but it just hurt me. But she isn’t in pain anymore and I’m happy for that. I’m just going through this really tough time. Thanks so much ladies ❤️
I am sorry you are going through all of that. It sounds like a lot of traumatic things happening at once. I hope that things look up and your moms mouth heals up soon. My mom had her teeth removed a few years ago and doesn’t have any issues anymore. So I hope this is the end of your mom’s suffering. And I am sorry for your loss. I lost my dad to cancer in 2005.
I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard to see our parents age and become frail 😢 much love to you and prayers for you and your family
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