Depressed life and this dam shelter is no help my Daughter is getting released after her NG tube…
Depressed life and this dam shelter is no help my Daughter is getting released after her NG tube next month needs to be in a clean environment with her own room/space we been told them that DHS is sad where we at there is not enough space for her were we at and its not that clean in here she doesn’t need to get sick again 😑
Caiticat 🌸·
Do you not have any family to stay with? Have you applied for housing?
Christina Sanchez ·
Yes we have mommy and they want her with her daddy and mummy
Caiticat 🌸·
@christinasanchez1984 Huh?
Lanie Jay·
Are your jobs local? Can you move to a cheaper location?
Christina Sanchez ·
@caiticat, they don't want her with another family just with her parents mami
sherry S·
Can't the shelter help with you an apt /home/condo ..In many states if you and your spouse work at least ...they let you stay in the shelter for a certain time frame but,you have to look for a job ,Keep the Job ,be stable budget so you don't have to go thru this again or your children and they help with rental deposit s....@christinasanchez1984 ...You can apply for housing also even if there's a waiting list
Better to be on it then not at all.Situations in life make us stronger for our self and loved one s WHO depend on us..
Christina Sanchez ·
I have SSI andmy husband has welfare mami
sherry S·
@christinasanchez1984 okay so if you both budget whatever you both have you can be ready to leave the shelter soon for the baby to come home in a clean environment for her health issues...they probably won't release a baby to live in a shelter
sherry S·
@christinasanchez1984 so what's your plan ? Sometimes we need to take action and make thing's happen for us and not wait for other's
Lanie Jay·
Where are all of the other kids? Can you stay with whomever is watching them? And work to save until she is discharged!m? Have you been saving since she’s been in there s while?
Christina Sanchez ·
@laniejay, that's not easy with my boys and all the run around we doing now luv
Lanie Jay·
Well I guess at this point it is all in what you want to do. Do YOU want to better your situation and are you willing to do the work it will take? Sitting around waiting for it won’t happen. If you want your own roof to get all your kids back and together, then you have to be willing to fight, sacrifice and work your tail off. It can’t be done, if you want it bad enough. I’d say best of luck, but it has nothing to do with luck, it’s all work. There’s been plenty of time for you two to get there, but you can’t look back. Start fresh and find some jobs and work as much as you can until she’s ready, then work opposite shifts.