One thing I learned in life , when me & my significant other are going through our problems NEVER should I EVER run to my parents for advice . Why ? Because it could just be a petty argument & me & him could be back smiling in each other’s face all over each other within the next 24 hours . My parents on the other hand could hold a grudge against him for as long as some months . I’ve experienced it TOO many times & so I’ve learned .... to just pray about it .
I learned that in my first marriage lol i was with my high school sweetheart for 8.5yrs and did that... my husband now been together for 7yrs and he did that with hos family and he wouldn't listen to me and learned the hard way. They got so out of hand he dont even talk to them no more its been like 4 yrs now. They dont know none our kids amd have not even tried.
This. My dad will hold a grudge for forever. He hates my in-laws because of how badly they treated/still sneakily treat me. I won't ever talk to my mom or him about our petty little fights.
I’ve learned this the hard way!