After having two kids pretty much back to back, I’ve been super self conscious of my body. My husband told me he wants a third so bad. I don’t know how I feel about it. I want to make him happy, but then again I really want to get my body back to the way it was. Any suggestions?
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@filterless, that makes sense. He’s deployed right now and won’t be back for 8 more months. That’s why I’m like baby vs no baby
@danielzamor2007, thanks! You’re the best!!
@robbyanne1 You can do it girl! 😀 Plus- if you start being active before pregnancy, you can during pregnancy as well and it won't be harmful at all.
Might as well have the 3rd now then be done... then you can get in shape and stay that way. I hated that right when i was finally feeling great and fit after my first son i got pregnant again and basically had to start over right after i was at my goal weight.
@danielzamor2007, wow! That gives me motivation haha thanks!!
@robbyanne1 I started working out and was almost at my targeted weight when I found out that I was pregnant with my daughter... Luckily- working on my body before I got pregnant helped out alot... I only gained 13lbs while pregnant and the day I had her- I was right back down...
@danielzamor2007, that makes a lot of sense. That’s what I was thinking, but then negative Nancy started telling me why even work on my body if I’m just going to get pregnant hahaha
@mrsmord, my kids are 1 1/2 and 2 1/2 in July. I really want to work on my body not only for myself, but for him too. I want a third, but I don’t want the after body. Being a women is hard haha
If you feel ready "mentally" lol to take on another baby- go for it! It would be better to get it out of the way- rather than get your body back and then get pregnant and you have to start all over... Maybe work on your body now, and if you get pregnant you'll still be able to work on yourself and it won't be as hard after the third.
I had the same thing . My kids are 10.5 months apart . I still struggle with my body . My husband used to bug me too until he stopped . My youngest son is now 2.5 and i really want a third just so I’ll have another one and then stop . I kno i want more and don’t want them too far apart either . And then I’ll have forever to work on my body.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I didn’t even think about having a third until recently so i totally get where your coming from