What do y'all think about getting tubes tied unmarried...im 27 and I know for sure I don't want kids in a while like until I get married ...i currently have a boyfriend but I also think about what if we don't work and I meet another man who I marry and will like to have a child. Or a man who has no kids...I will like a long term birth control that last atleast 5 years
@mom211n11 you're talking about the Essure, it's basically shaped like a spiral or screw that they put inside the felopian tubes to create scar tissue to block the eggs from getting from the ovaries to the uterus for fertilization. There have been lots of issues and bad side effects with this procedure.
No@mom211n11 o wow thanks for all the info I will be sure to all my doctor about getting tested first
I would also suggest you get tested for any thombolic disorders before doing ANY estrogen birth control. Women have developed serious life-threatening blood clots from estrogen birth control due to not knowing they had inherited blood clotting disorders.
Whatever you do, do not get the one that you insert over the cervix. My friend had serious issues and bleeding. She got pregnant with her third baby after having her tubes tied and burned. They can grow back apparently and there is a small chance the procedure can be done wrong. It is in the small print where she signed. Desperate to not get pregnant again, she did the uterus implant and she was part of the lawsuit to have this device removed. It begins with an "E".
If you want a long term bc, get an iud. They last 5-10 years depending on which one you get
Talk to your Dr they know you best.
@thequeen yes that's what' I was thinking about the 10 year one... And just get it out if I think I'm ready again
Get the IUD! Mine is good for 5 years, the hormone free one is good for 10years! And you can get it removed whenever you want
@al_lopezzzz2718 thanks I'm going to look that up
@vicvellas0411 right I just have to do some research on birth control
@mrsgonzalez2018_2u what are the names I think it's one that they insert inside of the vagina right
Try an iud. Getting your tubes tied is not birth control.
I'd try an implant or iud.
Try Implanon!! I'm in the same boat but a little different because My Husband wants more kids but I don't want anymore kids for awhile..like a long while. I'm 27 as well!!
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@melissa_luv228 yes! That's the one! Thank you!