Have been swimming all day and walking! Took the girls to a beach like area and spent the day 😊 Since my mom will be…

@leslyev92 hAHaha that's the best option I've heard 😂 4 kids I would just lose it

Lol the relationship I've had I swear I hate men now. No joke. It's that bad haha but I do completely understand your point

@bbhausfeld77 I'm in the same boat but what if we meet all our goals... And end up meeting someone I believe in fairytales girl lol... Same here my boyfriend and I our not at our best... I always say if we end it for real I'm not talking to no one else for years lol

@laquandashanea68 that's what someone else said to me but I just truly am content with 3. I need to finish school and make a life. I don't need anymore children or men in my life lol but seriously

I thought about getting my tubes tied also but I'm 27 and although I have a boyfriend I'm not married yet ... I also think about what if we don't work and I meet another man who I marry and will like to have a child. Or a man who has no kids... Just a thought... I actually know some one like that and she is now wanting her tubes untied... However I will like a long term birth control

@bbhausfeld77, idk what I’m gonna do now because I don’t wanna tie my tubes & I hate most options of contraceptives lol I think I’m gonna go celibate 😂

@leslyev92 it's pretty bad lol I had the worst cramps ever everyday of my life

IUD is the worst, I had one on for 2 weeks had to get that shit removed. One morning the pain was so bad I couldn’t stand up from the best & I had a newborn. When they removed it they told me it got hooked 😩😭 worst pain ever. Worse than the actual section, no lie.

@raquely me freaking too.

@leslyev92 hahahaha cruises are a blast! They just don't understand yet 😂

@raquely yeah I could never try to do the arm thing . Freaks me out

@raquely iud was god AWFUL. Lol and okay! Makes me feel better haha I know you're on top of things with info ! 😂

@bbhausfeld77, oh yeah, I’m excited for them!! I think I’m more excited than they are rn.

@bbhausfeld77, exactly. The TV will be taking care of them and I rather them be with their dad, being active.

@leslyev92 and a cruise ! They'll love that !!

@leslyev92 exactly why I'm okay with it too. I am going to be miserable moody and breast feeding constantly trying to get the hang on it so I'll have nothing for them to do.

I think 2 weeks is good time, you’ll be able to really settle in with baby at home before they come back and recuperate as well! My little ones will be staying w their dad, they are going on a cruise June 9th for about a week, so I’ll have about the same amount of time to just really settle in with my baby girl before the boys come back! It’s my oldest graduation trip so they should be having a lot of fun while I’m over here feeling like crap lol I rather they not see all that anyway.

@raquely ah so you do a lot of re search and you think it's worth it ?!

@raquely well the nurse at the hospital told me that and I keep forgetting to ask lol

@raquely I brought it up and they said that I waited to long to ask it had to be 30 days from my due date So now I have to wait ask my other doctor

Yes you will!!!

@raquely surgery for what?!

And that's where all my family lives so they'll have fun.

@caiticat well she lives in Cincinnati and I'm 3 hours away and they have stuff planned so I'm letting them 😩

2 weeks? That's a long time. 😔