My parents are super excited first time grandparents. My mom is already planning my baby shower. She asked me what colors I want. I told her as of now I want to do a Baby Q (BBQ but to celebrate the baby). I was thinking food on the grill and sides like a normal BBQ but she's says she wants to do pulled pork, sloppy joes, and cream chicken. Does this seem acceptable for a BBQ or am I just over thinking it? I mean it's going to be at her house and as of now she's paying for it. I feel like she's taking over and just inviting my parents friends (which is fine), but kinda makes me feel awkward to invite my friends or my boyfriend's family (who would have to drive 2hours).