I haven’t been on here in a long time so I thought I would caught you all up on what’s been going on in my life :
I have never told anyone for the past three years mark has always put his hands on me to as little as pushing me / calling me names to as big as choking me until I have passed out .. well things was going good for a little bit until the day before Easter he head butted me so hard it knocked me to the ground and I can’t see or hear .. I didn’t call the cops I just moved out .. I was still letting him have Abel ever weekend ... well on Mother’s Day after all weekend he was telling me I couldn’t have Abel back I was a bad mom ... & the next minute he wanted to merry me ... I finally talked him into letting me come get Abel .. i was going to pull out & he saw a note in my car for a man I have been talking to saying remember to smile & have a great day .. he lost it punched me mirror off , tried to rip my door off and jumped on my windshield and busted it . (Our son was in the car. Crying) well I finally stood up for myself called the cops & got a dvp .. well two days later cps comes to my house & everything he said he was going to tell them he did! ( I did meth , I abused Abel etc) none of it was true .. so he came in left . But we went to court yesterday & I was so scared he was going to sweet talk the judge like he has everyone for so long & make me look like a bad person . Nope the judge saw right through him .. it making him go through 34 weeks of domestic violence classes, pay for my car , pay child support, & can’t see Abel until we go to court again which will be a couple of months. The whole 30 mins we was in there the judge was telling him off ... I cried just because I still love him but at the same time someone needed to tell him . He has always bulldoged me for so long . It was nice to see someone take up for me ...
So proud of you for standing up for yourself and your son. Take one day at A time. Never forget that you're worthy of so much more. You've got this mama! Stay strong
Yay.i am so happy for u. It hurts.i know
But u are doing the right thing.good for u.you are being a great mom which is #1. U need to keep you and baby safe !:) xo ull b good. Trust ne. Let time go by. You stay away from him. Itss happen again! Im so proud of u:))
I’m sorry you had to deal with a coward. He’s not even a man. No man will ever hit a woman. I’m glad you spoke up and did what you needed to do to break free and get yourself and your baby boy out of that situation.