Agree with everyone here -- you need a family lawyer. It was a family lawyer that helped my husband get full custody of his kids from their alcoholic, drug addict mother. It's expensive, though.

If I were you, I'd get a FPO against him & do nothing about his rights. Let him try to take you to court. He may not be willing to pay the money or make the effort to do so. Unless you're 100% sure you'd win full custody with no visitation, it's not really worth the risk. Plus having a longstanding FPO against him at that point, him threatening you, him being a druggie, incarcerated, & then if he makes no effort to see his kid, etc all helps you out in the event he tries to take you to court instead.

@crai, @livefast, thank you, yeah he’s said it on the phone when he called me and he said the jail records every phone call, so there’s proof right there.. he’s verbally abusive right now and his mom has told me that he can be physically abusive too and it’s not that I’m scared of that because if a man ever hit me, I’d show him what’s up.. but I just don’t want my child to see what his dad will do to me. And I sure hell don’t want my child near him if he’s gonna be that way. My toddlers father, my first and second born, he wants to adopt Logan and be his dad and talk to his lawyer about the rights thing. I’m okay with it, because he’s a better father than this POS.😩