Just had a very condescending grumpy 😡 nasty midwife lecture me at 5 o’clock in the morning about cot death. My baby was very secure like a kangaroo in my nightdress all night and we have had a a lovely night of sleep and bonding.
Most midwifes are lovely helpful and love there jobs from time to time you meet the odd one that feels the need to make you feel uncomfortable.
I’m 36 and I have 6 very alive children 👶 thank you very much.
Just needed to let that out my darlings lol 😝 make sure you all stick up for yourself a and not let the odd nasty midwife upset you x.
And ladies I do t sleep with my baby 🍼 at home sometimes occasionally like tonight or when again I want to bond I like my space and sleep lol.
But even if I did that would be none of her or anyone’s business.
Lol 😂 sorry ranting again.
I co slept with my child as he would choke and go blue... it was the only way i would be alarmed to his struggle... all midwives said no but i knew what was rigjt for my little boy.
His chokes wer the hardest time of my life but we have an amazing bond now x
She just wanted to have a go at me but he was in a snug cocoon in my nightdress he was snug as a rug and happy 😃 lol