Seriously thinking about leaving my SO. Honestly fed up with the lies and half truths 😡😰

Thank you! I really appreciate everyone taking the time to help me cope with this and not make drastic decisions. It’s not easy not having an outlet sometimes

The silent treatment is definitely the easiest choice for my husband. He thinks that if we don’t finish the conversation and he leaves it where it is then it’s done. I’m just so tired of dealing with it. I can’t stress myself out anymore though and I do know that

It's the worst 😐 I'm sorry.

Still learning myself!!!

Believe me. It takes practice turning off the natural feeling of hurt to think it through. Men aren't taught to work out their own emotions like how you and I are talking about it. But they are taught how to discipline others for perceived wrong doing. So the silent treatment was an easy choice for him.

@mokai08, it’s so true because he knows how to push my buttons. I really want to work things out and get back to where we were. This is the worst feeling and the hardest thing I feel like I have ever had to deal with lol 😓😰😩

No. You don't. Go about your day, ignore him and act like you couldn't be bothered cause sorry, having a baby and you're not gonna stress yourself out. See if he doesn't come around. He's acting that way to get a reaction. Don't give it to him. Punishing you doesn't work if you don't act like you're being punished.

@mokai08, I haven’t really thought of it that way and it probably would be better. I’m just really upset and he is treating me like crap. I am the cause of him being late to work today and he has had the biggest attitude all day. He also has barely talked to me which is definitely not something that happens a lot. I just feel really.....I don’t even know. I don’t deserve any of the way I’m being treated though.

I know for sure my tolerance is at an all time low. Do you think you can wait until after the baby is born? Ignore stuff for now and then reevaluate? He may be just going through. I find some act pretty weird during a pregnancy like they are afraid of the added responsibility and financial burden.

True. I definitely know he isn’t perfect and I’m the farthest from perfect there is. There is just certain situations that make things harder. Situations that keep repeating themselves.

Going threw the same thing but no man is perfect so just as well he has flaws you do too 🤔

It’s okay. Honestly, I don’t want to leave. I want to work things out but I don’t get the same type of effort from him that I’m putting out. I’m just exhausted

We can put up with things over and over again but there comes a point where you just get fed up and burned out. That’s where I am at right now and I am trying not to make quick decisions while angry. This is the worst.

I'm sorry :(

Yesss exactly the shit I'm going threw