Rant. Refusing cervix exams at OB

Today I had my 38 weeks appointment. I expected the appointment to be quick like always. Weight, BP, fundal height, see you in a week. But today the nurse brought a gown and said "get undressed today she wants to make sure you aren't dilated". I told her no thank you, I don't want to be checked. Maybe at 40 weeks, but I feel it's too early. She looked at me and said "oh, she's not going to like that".