First prenatal appt gone wrong

So on Wednesday I had my registration appointment. I set up my Dr and all that fun stuff. Well to do an official dating scan the dr attempted to do ultrasound in the office (with the portable ultrasound machine) she had it barely inserted as I normally have pressure with a vaginal ultrasound and I had nothing. She says I don’t see anything. No sac, no baby. Your uterus is empty. (History of ectopic here) So I’m freaking out. And then she starts questioning me. R u sure u haven’t bled? R u sure no spotting? Like really? Had I, I would’ve been in ER not waiting for my appt. I’m a mess by this time. Then she goes on to say oh u must be super constipated, how long has it been since u had a bowel cause you are blocked up. Ummm I’m not constipated. In fact I went this morning (day of scan) and I hadn’t eaten anything in 12hrs so that’s impossible. So I’m questioning what she is even looking at. I’m sent to radiology, right away the girl says oh baby is active, moving arms and legs & flipping side to side, heartbeat of 166 (gender guesses welcome), healthy! In my uterus!!!!! So because of that DUMB “Doctor” I wasn’t able to get a picture of my baby this week! ?