RANT/VENT

So dh and i had a HUGE argument today that ended up with me barracading myself in the bedroom for 2 hours. It all started when i asked if dh could take bubba down stairs so i could have some extra zzz. Well, apparently he was tired even though he had a 2 hour nap at 5pm-7pm and went to bed early. Id stayed up with the baby till 3am because he wouldn't sleep. He cracked the s*** s told me he was sick of my s*** and then tried to take the baby from me to which i replied " f*** off you're not touching him while you're angry" 30 minutes later he comes back calm and takes the baby but i still only got an extra hour sleep. I spend the next couple of hours s*** ty as all hell. He then proceeded to ask me why i was angry. When i had come down stairs to feed the baby i ask him why the baby was all wet he said he didnt know. I asked when was the last time he had changed him and he replied with "well he hasnt pooed so i didnt change him" the poor child hadnt been changed since 2am and he didnt think to change him! I was absolutely livid with anger. Which started a massive fight to why he cant think for himself and im sick of asking him to do things that i shouldn't have too! Im sick of getting up at 6am and having to feed the baby, do the dishes he didn't think to do, clean the kitchen, do the washing, clean the floors etc. He comes down in the mornings goes and has a cigarette then has the nerve to go make himself breakfast eat it in front of me and then get all defensive when i ask him to take the f*** ing baby so i can eat! He can't even dress the baby without my help.