counseling

DH finally admits that we should do couple counseling but now that I'm sitting back and thinking, I don't think that will help, how could it possibly help his spending how could it help his sleeping a lot how could it help him be more involved in helping out around the house. I'm just not convinced anymore that counseling would make him better. I'm worried I'm beyond the point of being able to stay with him. I feel stuck. I feel like I have to stay with him for a few reasons that I don't really want to get into on here. I feel like in ways I could just take our son and the one cooking and just go to my mom's and start fresh and do better than we are right now. But at the same time it breaks my heart cause I don't want to throw away the good times I don't want to take our kids from him. It sucks cause I see what he could become but he just hasn't I've seen it for our whole relationship and thought I could help get him there but I can't. And he clearly can't get there on his own. So if I can't help him and he can't help himself what good is a counselor going to do? I don't want to give up....but I feel like I have no other choice....