Funeral etiquette My DH grew up with a set of twins that were his best friends throughout school, there mothers were…

Funeral etiquette

My DH grew up with a set of twins that were his best friends throughout school, there mothers were best friends as well. Well their mother does Thursday night :( her funeral is Monday and we have a 7 month old, do I skip the funeral? Bring DD and just stay in the foyer of the funeral home or just go to the funeral and remove ourselves outside if she's noisy? A babysitter is out of the question.