Starting TWW. Anyone else? I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Has anyone else thought of this nonsense with her being weird, not having consistent information etc. as seeming a whole lot like the beginning of Glee with the fake pregnancy?!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ladies I'm getting so confused my doctors says I'm having a girl .... But everybody else saying it looks like a boy so I'm wondering 😪 it your having a girl would it look like this ?
Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
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I’m also having my 4th and baby is very low. And keeps getting lower. I was basically told at this point after having three big babies things are pretty stretched out and that’s just how it is. I’m not really uncomfortable but two of my doctors suggested get a support belt. So I ordered a belly bandit one and it gets here Tuesday. Hopefully it helps holds this baby up for the next 11 weeks!
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I am 36 and have a 10.5 year gap betwen our last. I wonder if our eldery muscles are more relaxed after prior pregnancies and don’t pull everything in as tight? I am also feeling more pressure and pelvic pain down there than I remember with my other two. Maybe hips are already wider so bub can settle in the pelvis a bit earlier? You could ask them to check if bub is engaged at your next appointment which is what usually causes the true “drop”. Otherwise bub is probably just enjoying the extra room since everything has already been stretched before ❤️
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Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@waiting4three maybe i should look into the support belt ? all my babies were small to me (I'm small myself lol) #1 was 7lbs 3oz...#2 was 5lbs 15.6oz and #3 was 6lbs 2oz...i feel huge rn...wondering how much more i can take...will be 29 weeks tomorrow so i guess i have 11 weeks left now too...hoping she comes early honestly...its becoming a heavy load for me and I'm lowkey really anxious about how much bigger and heavier I will get....especially if she keeps pushing down on me...i wonder if it could be so low due to my long torso...i forgot all about that...on the brightside at least I'm not alone in the feeling lol...im gonna shop around for the support belt...hopefully i can find one quickly lol
Angelica LeBelle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@MikiMouseMum i am 27 but feeling like I'm a little older by the body...im guessing it has got to be the gap in between...im going to ask at my next appointment to see if she is engaged or not...one weird thing is i never feel her move very high...i haven't the whole pregnancy...she has kinda stayed at the bottom...rarely ever feel her any higher than my belly button...wonder what that could be...makes me wonder if she will ever go up into my ribs lol...of course I'm not complaining if she doesn't lol...im ready for my next appointment...i have so many questions now lol...
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I've been carrying low so mine has actually went up a bit my fourth too. There was 13 years between my 2nd and 3rd.
Angelica LeBelle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@jinxgirl hmm maybe that means she can still go up for me... *fingers crossed* lol
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I think as we get a bit older our bodies respond differently. Stuff happens earlier in pregnancy and new physiological changes occur that aren't as typical when mom's are younger.
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Update.... my support belt arrived and it’s amazing!!! I highly recommend getting one. It feels reeeeally good. Especially for my back which I didn’t realize was bothering me until I put the belt on and realized how good it felt! And it gives my belly a nice little boost. I got the belly bandit upsie belly. It was pricey but i think it’s worth it. The other ones I looked at, around $20, seemed more flimsy. This one gives lots of support. I wish I had it sooner. I hope you’re feeling well! Good luck!!!