is this cheating? I have been having bad feelings about my SO so I made a bad decision to look…

He is cheating! Even if its just verbal cheating! U are a strong beautiful woman keep ur head up girl! Loose that a****** he doesn't deserve u or ur baby.

thanks so much

No problem I'll keep u and ur child in my prayers.

Yea that's cheating. Emotionally. He's giving his time & attention somewhere it doesn't need to be.

Yes he is cheating... Who knows where those exchange of messages may lead to

Holy s*** if this aint cheating i dont know what is. Be strong, dont let him make a fool out of you!

:( I'm so sorry but yes this is cheating and if he's trying to defend it or put excuses then he's gonna do worse than this..god..if I were u is just leave..I don't get why some ppl just don't take commitment seriously !

Yes this is cheating and the fact that he has the nerve lie is even worse. I know first hand that something like this isn't a joke

I already knew the answer. It just hurts so bad. He said people out there are doing so much worse and is bringing up two year old drama. I thought this was the person I wanted to spend my life with. I'm glad I found out sooner than later.

Definitely cheating!

Yes, cheating.

You don't even have to ask. You already know. The lie that he's telling you is what you want the truth to be, but you already know exactly what it is. A lie.... Don't sugar coat it

It's a joke? That's the best he could come up with? Smh.

Obviously he is seeking relations outside of your guys relationship so yes that is a form of cheating.

Tell him the jokes on him and break up with him.

He's a liar and a cheater. Given the chance, he'd do it.

it's definitely cheating i think it's the training wheels before actually going to physically cheating. i wouldn't stay with him what a f*** in a****** your child's in the hospital and he's thinking about other women I'll send his ass flying out the door.

I'm so sorry by the way about your baby i hope he or she gets better stay strong you have to keep your head up for your child.

What a pathetic clown...

Run doll, while your still young and beautiful...

I would NEVER give acknowledgement to someone who seeks attention elsewhere, if I'm giving him MY ALL..

So.. to make you think he hasn't been lying to you, his excuse is that he is lying to other women and leading them on? He thinks that is better than cheating?

So, he isn't just playing with your heart, he is admittedly playing with the hearts of multiple other women?

Real class act, there.

Did he truly not realize that his excuse only makes him look worse than he already does?

Did he honestly think, that even if you did believe this blatant lie, that it would make things seem better?

Seems like he has some questionable morals/judgment calls.

Thanks ladies. I knew the answer, I just had to be sure. He has no morals at all trying to justify it. I'm glad he lives out of town and won't be coming back

Yes. That is cheating and it's obviously not a joke if he's having real conversations with these women. He's trying to be manipulative about the situation, I'd run far far away from him if I were you!