I saw this strolling down my Facebook earlier. All of the comments are saying the bf should sell his…
I saw this strolling down my Facebook earlier. All of the comments are saying the bf should sell his xbox and help provide for his child. Kind of agree but I think we all know that cash-in from a secondhand xbox wouldn't last very long when compared to the prices of cots, prams, bottles, clothes, blankets, bedding, nappies, wipes (to name only a few). Some comments were hounding the mother for being unemployed too. I imagine it's pretty difficult securing a job when your pregnant because of the coated discrimination, saying that, her and her partner should have accessed the financial situation before having another child in the first place. I didn't read the orginal post and I've no idea who these people are but I feel for them. They appear to have only asked for help, a simple yes/no would have been fine as some people are more willing to help than others, regardless of situations but instead they've gotten completely bulldozed in the comments lol. Found it quite interesting anyways!
Tal·
There is a difference between letting yourself go without and letting your child go without. I don’t get my hair done or my nails or anything so that when I have time with my SS I am able to take him to do things he wants and to buy him things he needs.
Clare Pye·
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@winnie1 I think I'm a bit naive when it comes to people in need. The way I see it is; if I was ever to ask for help like that, even if it be a 10er for electric - I'd be absolutely desperate, my pride would be shattered, I'd feel humiliated having to ask anybody. So when I see somebody asking for free things (especially when it's for a baby which is just my heartstrings in tatters) that's how I perceive them to be feeling, desperate. I have on the flip side been on the burner of it though. A few years ago, I lent a "desperate friend" half of my wage slip to help with his rent, which nearly knocked me under... for him to flee the country not long after lol. I think I paid for his flight, not too sure 😂 But yeah, youre right, refuges and charity shops is probably the best way to go about it.