So I’m gonna vent a little.
So I’m gonna vent a little.
My husband knows I struggle with insecurities due to our past & things we’ve been through. Honestly lately it’s been pretty bad, but I think all of us women go through that at different points of our lives, especially during pregnancy. I just had a talk with him last night about how I haven’t felt as beautiful lately, and he told me that he was gonna help me through it. Y’all I woke up today, got ready for church and ya girl was looking 🔥🔥. I can say that for myself because I actually took more time on my makeup and my outfit was really cute and I was feeling good. The thing is, he hasn’t told me once today I looked good or beautiful. Trying to figure out if it’s ridiculous for feeling sad about this, or if I am just pregnant and more sensitive than usual. I know people have bigger issues, but I also know this is a safe place to just let even the ridiculous things out sometimes. I love him and most of the time he’s good about telling me things like this, but it’s literally the day after I lay it out. Ughhhh 😩
Alissa Nicole·
girl this is so me too lol. you are not alone!
Melissa Redfield ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
You are gorgeous momma!!! I start feeling like this when I’m huge and pregnant as well I’ve always dressed up and wore tights clothes And honestly you don’t need a man telling you... I can tell you😂 I know how you feel men get so comfortable with us women they forget about us being emotional and sensitive especially when they feel they’ve been together with us for years and have us locked down with a baby and another on the way!! I want you to write a journal and write down all the things to why you are beautiful do this when your feeling down, get dressed up and look in the mirror and tell yourself positive things about yourself also have a girls night out with your girls once a week and dress up, also check out some local breweries or wineries in your area they are so much fun and you don’t even need to drink!!! Good luck love and remember your Gorgeous 💕
Nelly B.·
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This is not ridiculous at all!! I mean sure the hormones do make us more sensible, happens to me too, but that’s exactly why we need those words of reassurance now more than ever. I’m glad at least you KNOW you look beautiful, I too take some effort my in make up and dressing up nicely cause I want my husband to think I’m pretty all the time, but I’m always teasing him and asking him “am I pretty? Tell me I’m pretty. Tell me I’m pretty all day please” and we both laugh, and he says I’m silly but he says it with a smile and then says “of course you’re pretty” and when he says it like that, I don’t even care that I was the one who asked him to say it because I know he means it too. I think guys use actions more than words to show love, so don’t be afraid to ask him to tell you how beautiful you are, even if it sounds silly.
Nelly B.·
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Also, whenever you pretty up for any occasion, take lots of pictures, keep the ones you like best! I’m sure you’ll love to look back on how cute you looked pregnant :)
Andrea·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (34 нед.)
@melissaredfield87, @nlboldt, thank you ladies!!! I know it’s just a phase. Women and men have 100% different ways of thinking. I’m definitely blessed to have a man that tries though! ❤️