Moms and wife’s I need your advice. My husband was acting strange for a few days and I asked him what was wrong. Well he…

feeling or expressing bitterness or indignation at having been treated unfairly. Is the definition but when people get that way everything turns negative they act hateful towards you and blame things that aren’t your fault on you.

@alexistol33, What’s resentful??

@sunkissedsweetheart, well that makes more sense to me. He’s still really young and hasn’t gotten it out of his system yet. If you don’t let him have guy time he is going to become resentful; it sounds like he is already on his way there. You two should try to come to a compromise on this.

@alexistol33, He’s 23 we have been together for 5 years

@sunkissedsweetheart, I really don’t know. I would have to observe your relationship to see if I could surmise. I would recommend having a bbq or something and inviting all of his friends over with their families-or everyone goes to a park for a bbq. Do something that is more inclusive with the families of the friends involved and see how he feels about that. If he feels the need to only hang out with them outside of the house and away from all of their families, then that would raise some red flags for me. Can I ask how old he is and how long you’ve been together?

Yeah actually all the little kid stuff of putting your friends first does stop.

When you have a family the needs of the family come before the wants of friends.

@alexistol33, Yeah that’s my thing like why do u have to go to a bar why can’t they come over and us grill or something. What other issue do u think it could be?

@iwannaplay, That’s what I tell him but he says “just bc we have a kid dosent mean our life stops”

Sounds to me like there are some deeper issues. It can’t hurt to try a couple of counseling sessions and see if they can be pin pointed. Maybe a compromise that he can go out with his friends once a month or maybe his friends can come over for a game or something.

If you guys weren’t parents then yeah great go out have fun him with his friends you with yours. When the little people are involved all the friends take a back seat. Bars are fine unless you can’t control yourself which if he’s easily influenced he won’t be able to do. If you or your child have an emergency situation if he can’t be counted on to deal with it in a fully functional way his priorities are completely out of whack

Sweetness if you’re newly weds and he’s already pulling this you’re in this marriage alone.

@zekesmama, That sounds good that’s what I’ll tell him. I just hope he doesn’t get use to going to the bar with his friends and get use to it and not want to be married anymore. Like I’m afraid he will have to much fun and not wanna come back to the “family” life

@iwannaplay, Exactly! Some men just need to grow up and realize what’s more important at the end of the day and who will be by there side no matter what. I love my husband so much but that just killed me

Sounds exactly like my ex we’re getting divorced because he couldn’t be without his friends and the use dope so guess who else had to use dope

@iwannaplay, It sucks so bad. Like we just got married and then he tells me that shit

@zekesmama, He gets influenced very easy. If his friends are doing something bad then he feels like he should be able to

First this sounds like something a child would say. He and he alone is responsible for his happiness. If his friends mean more than his wife I’ll tell you from personal experience just leave because he is not and will not be the man you need I stayed too long trying to fix this exact problem and all it did was break me down time and time again