You are an amazing woman OP. Straight up amazing.

Nice job Enoch ?

You are a truly beautiful and courageous person.

And on another note.... Can a judge really give a court order demanding an abortion??? That can't possibly be true!

What an awful thing for her to talk to you about after everything you've been through... Op, you are such a beautiful soul. Prayers and healing for you & your family.

Wow! You're amazing, OP, truly amazing. ❤️ I sure hope she makes a change for the better and gives that sweet baby the life he/she deserves and strives to be the best she can.

What a winner, indeed. Awful.

Thanks ladies! She told him and they are separating and divorcing in May, when their lease is up. This will be an interesting 5 months for them for sure...

The baby's bio dad said he was going to have a judge serve her with a court order forcing her to abort the baby. ? She sure did pick a winner.

That's incredible! Im glad she chose to keep the baby, but seriously. Does she not know how to use birth control? I don't understand people who use abortion as birth control. Is she going to tell her husband it may not be his? It's so sad to me that some people can have kids no problem who don't really want them, and those,who want nothing more often have trouble.

You're a good friend, but how you bit your tongue with her telling you that at such a horrible time I do not know. You're an inspiration and such a strong, good hearted woman.

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Beautiful! This gave me chills! Good job baby boy ♡♡♡!

I love his name. ❤️

This brought tears to my eyes! Your little baby is an Angel helping mommy being strong. Hugs!

God put you and Enoch here on this earth with amazing purpose in mind. ?

I didn't see this until just now and am crying after reading this. I'm so glad she changed her mind. I believe she was meant to talk to you that day even though it was so painful for you to hear her say that stuff. God directed her to you for a reason. ❤️

Wow. I literally had tears in my eyes after reading this. I am so glad you angel made a difference for a baby. I would be upset that she told you that after you lost your baby. God bless you. Your a strong person.

@sammi - yes, she does have a lot of issues and I've distanced myself from her for a while now. We've been friends since grade school and she has had a very hard life. Both of her parents were addicts and both died when she was a teenager. She has a lot of stuff she needs to work through, I just always try to be there for her because she really hasn't had anyone - not anyone who will speak candidly, truthfully, and lovingly to her all at the same time. I honestly think that's why she called me in the first place, she's always come to me for advice and even though it was THE WORST timing, things seemed very dire.

Awe, what an amazing turn out! She will not regret her decision once her LO is here. So sorry for your loss, op.

I cannot imagine having the self-control you had in that situation. As much as I encourage people to stick close to their friends, please be careful with this one. Your hubby sounds like he's spot on and I would be worried about her being clueless/insensitive enough that it would hurt you more or delay your healing. I truly hope after your conversation she learns to just shhh.

I know my best friend called me the day after her 4th 12-14 weem m/c in hysterics bc her friend called all excited that they got to hear HER babies heartbeat (they knew she had went through this not 2 days before).

Some people genuinely don't know when to be quiet or rely on another friend (or perhaps this woman needs a good therapist) or they just don't see anyone's feelings but their own.

I'm glad your son was able to be an example of how precious life is and how wanted many babies are. People sometimes forget that when facing a daunting situation unfortunately but it sounds like you were an amazing example of a friend and mother.

Very true. My dh was gone when she texted that and he came home to me crying. Horribly insensitive of some people.

@liindsey, yes - I've noticed people can say some pretty insensitive stuff. Sometimes I think they just feel like they have to say something - but no, you don't. Staying quiet is sometimes way better!

Oops! That's supposed to say "the day we came home", but it won't let me edit the OP.

This warms my heart! ❤ God has a reason for everything. ?

The day after I had to get a miscarriage induced to pass everything, my mom's already asking when we're going to start trying again for more grand babies for her ?? I was furious.

This is a sweet story and I'm so happy your were able to have a positive effect on her!!

She said she will keep it. She already has one child so she wouldn't want to give the baby up.

Pp- she said she was getting a divorce. And yes, I was angry at the time. When I told DH, he told me I should never talk to her again, that she had no tact. I said if it made her reconsider, it was worth how painful the conversation was.

I'm pretty sure my sons sometime have the complete opposite effect on people lolll

That is a very sweet story. Kind of curious to know how this plays out one day... does she leave her Dh? Will the child know a loving home?

And what a terrible friend dishing that all on you at your most vulnerable moment...

Is she keeping him/her too, after birth? Thanks for sharing!