Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing…
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
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I can't even imagine your pain.
I'm so very sorry for your loss, momma!
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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I so sorry you have to go through this mama, you're in my prayers ❤️
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I am so so sorry.
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I am so so sorry. My heart hurts for you :( ❤️❤️
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I'm so sorry ❤️
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How devastating... I'm so sorry.
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This just broke my heart. I am so sorry. I wish you all the strength to get through this.
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I am so sorry hun if u need to talk I'm here
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So terribly sorry for your loss , you are in my thoughts and prayers X
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I'm so sorry, prayers ♡
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I'm tearing as I read your post.. I'm 16 weeks and going in to my 20 weeks scan on January 4 and I just can't imagine the pain you and your family are going thru.. I'm sooo sorry for your lost. I will have you and your family in my prayers and thoughts.. Again I'm so sorry ?
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Omg. I'm so sorry! My heart aches for you! Lots of prayers going your way❤❤❤
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So sorry for your family's loss.
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I am so sorry for your loss! ?
Prayers and strength sent your way!
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I'm so sorry. ? this is heartbreaking.
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I'm so sorry. ?
Prayers for you and your family.
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I'm so sorry???
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I am so sorry ❤️
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I'm am so so very sorry for your loss...we lost our son February 14th this year and it is like a pain I have never experienced....
I wish I would have known about this before we lost him or someone would have told us about this, so please please please do not take it any possible way other than I am letting you know to help you....you're able to get a kit or the hospital can do his fingerprints for you to later have molded into a necklace. I so desperately wish we would have known this to have done with our Jameson....
Much love and positive healing thoughts your way!
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I'm so sorry, I'm praying for you and your family.
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This is so sad, I'm really really sorry for you and your family's loss
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I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you and your family.
My heart broke in pieces and I started crying for you. I know your pain too well and know nothing anyone can say or do will make it better. Many hugs to you.
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I'm so sorry. Prayers for all of you. ?
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I am so very sorry for your loss. Prayer to you and your family. Send lots of hugs your way. Again I'm so sorry ?
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Sending you love and positivity during this dark and difficult time. Please stay as strong as you can beautiful. I'm sorry you're going through this. Rip sweet baby boy.
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I am soo sorry, my heart is breaking for you. You and my family will be in my prayers
Ashley Roan·
Thank you ladies. So so much. All of your words mean so much to me.
I'm just dreading this. Who wants to birth their sweet baby before Christmas and not bring him home? I just can't handle this.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. ❤️
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Oh no!! I'm so sorry! I'll keep you guys in my prayers. ?
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I'm sorry for your loss! Definitely keeping you and your family in my prayers ????
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I am so sorry, momma.
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I am so, so very sorry. I know nothing I say will ease your pain, its a loss like no other. I have been there. I pray God holds you close during this terrible time and the days, months & years to come. Losing a child is senseless and I'm sorry another mother has to go through it. I won't say I understand how you feel, because everyone feels differently, but know I can relate. I only say this because I cherish my pictures so much, but NILMDTS has photographers that will do pictures for free. Even if you never want to look at them, you have them should you ever want to. Lots and lots of hugs momma. Pm me anytime.
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I'm so sorry mama. The worst pain in the world. I've lost four LO myself.
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I'm so sorry! I can't even begin to imagine the pain you're in, it's something no mother should ever feel. You and your family are in my prayers
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
Ashley Roan·
I don't even have a name for him. I have to think of a name. I thought I had months, not days.
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So so sorry? prayers to you and your family
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I am so sorry for your loss. ? May god help you, find strength. Heaven has a new angel watching over you.
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I'm so so so incredibly sorry girl! You guys are in my prayers. ?
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I posted this for another mama in my group who lost her baby. I had an ectopic pregnancy at 13 weeks and this poem was sent to me. Hopefully it comforts you like it did me. So sorry for your loss.
His Journey's Just Begun
Don't think of him as gone away
His journey's just begun.
Life holds so many facets
This earth is only one.
Just think of him resting
From the sorrow and the tears
In a place of warmth and comfort
Where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing
That we could know today
How nothing but our sadness
Can really pass away
And think of him as living
In the hearts of those he touched
For nothing loved is ever lost
And he was loved so much.
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Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. I am very sorry for your lost. Its hard to give words when you don't know how it feels or what you are going through, but I pray you and your family have strength to get through this.
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I'm so sorry op. Many hugs and prayers sent your way ??❤️
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? I'm so sorry for your loss. I couldn't imagine. Hang in there mama. You're definitely in my thoughts and prayers! ?❤
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My heart breaks for you. I'm sorry for your loss
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My heart breaks for you. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
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I'm so sorry for your loss ?
Ashley Roan·
Thank you, ladies. I really appreciate it.
Has anyone delivered a stillborn? PM me if you feel comfortable offering any advice.
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I'm so sorry sweetheart May god comfort you in this time
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I'm so sorry. I have never been through this but I have a soft spot in my heart for you and you can message me any time. I'm praying for you and your family. ?
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That's terrible. I am so sorry. I know that hurts.
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I'm so sorry for your loss, prayers for healing.
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I am so so sorry. I can not even imagine how you feel. No one ever deserves this. I'll be thinking of you and your family. ❤
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I am so sorry!! My heart goes out to you. Sending lots of love and hugs your way.
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I am so sorry for your loss!
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My jaw dropped reading this title.
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. ❤️
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Am really sorry you and your family have 2 go thru this. I don't know how old your kids but it must be really hard 4u and harder to tell them. Have your family in my prayers《3
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Oh my gosh ? My heart just broke into a million pieces for you. I've been following your story since you came here. Much love to you and your family ♥️ I'm so sorry for your loss ? Maybe try looking for a name for your little boy that has a special meaning.
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You and your family have my deepest prayers and sympathy
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I'm so sorry for your loss, prayers being sent your way!
Ashley Roan·
Thank you, ladies. Thank you so much for all the prayers and thoughts. It means so much. I never thought I'd be here, in this place of loss, anger, frustration, mourning, questions, sadness... and it sucks more than I could have ever imagined.
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I'm so sorry for your lost mama be strong
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I'm so sorry for your lost. Hugs and prayers. ? may you have peace in your heart soon.
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So sorry for the loss of your son :-( I too just lost my daughter at 17 weeks in October. There is a 2nd and 3rd trimester loss group that has some amazing ladies in it and are a great support. Again I am so sorry...
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I am so sorry for you loss, this hits too close to home for me and it breaks my heart just imaging the pain you are feeling in this moment. I wish I could reach out to you and give you a hug and cry together because of everything. I will keep you and your family in my prayers and your sweet angel baby boy ?
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I'm so very sorry.
I delivered my baby girl stillborn around the same gestation. Please feel free to PM me anytime for any reason.
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So sorry OP ? you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers
When I had my miscarriage I explained to my children that something must have been wrong with the baby and now the baby was with God (I know this would only pertain if you are a believer)
We let balloons go as a memorial and to help the kids "let go"
I wish I had the words to help console and comfort you...((hugs))
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This is so tragic! I'm sorry this has happened.
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Omg I am so sorry. Hugs, and praying for your family.
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I'm sorry??
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Op you can pm me if you'd like. I am truly sorry for your loss. ?? my heart breaks for you.
"No parent should ever have to bury a child."
Be open with the Drs and ask all your questions. You can take pictures, hold, bathe, lock of hair, mold hand and food prints (bring the kit), dress, request a priest and have them weigh, measure your baby if you'd like. They have a small kit they give bereaving families. Op I'm here for you. I'm sorry you and your family have to go through this. This pain has no words. Nothing compares. Sending hugs and love your way.
Edit: they can do genetic screening, placenta can be sent to the lab for examination and or autopsy. Not sure how early they can do those.
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So terribly sorry :( you'll be in our thoughts and prayers today , wishing you nothing but strength ?
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I'm so sorry OP
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I am so sorry. I can't even imagine your pain. I will be thinking of you and praying for your healing and comfort ??
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:'(
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I am so sorry to hear this happened to you. God bless you and your family❤️
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I am so very sorry for your loss. RIP sweet baby boy ? prayers to you and your family during this difficult time ?
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So sorry for your loss I pray for peace and comfort during this hard time for you Xxx
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I am so sorry for your loss...
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I'm so sorry! I'm about to say my bedtime prayers and I'll include you, baby, and family! Sooo sorry
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I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you. xo
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I am very sorry for your loss!! Will be praying for you!
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I'm so sorry for your loss ?
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I am so sorry for your loss
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So sorry praying for you and your family.
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. ?
Your family is in my thoughts.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I will pray for you! Stay strong
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Praying for you and your family. ? I'm so very sorry.
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I'm so sorry. I lost a child at 14 months and had a 3 yo at the time. If you need to talk or anything please don't hesitate.
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My heart just completely broke. I'm so sorry for your loss! I can't imagine how you're feeling, but I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers❤ I hope you can find peace in knowing your baby is in paradise with Jesus.❤
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I'm so sorry :( :(
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I'm so sorry. I will be praying for you and your family!
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I am so sorry for your family's loss.
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Jesus must have needed him. Hugs & prayers. Lord, be with this family. Give them comfort & peace. AMEN!
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Thinking of you...
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Sorry for your loss I will have you and your family in my prayers ???
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I'm sorry. I also found out my daughter had passed at 21weeks in October last year. Her 20w ultrasound was perfect. We still have no idea why. If you need anyone to speak with I'm here.