Hubby just left for work we on better term this morning we talked every thing over he say he sorry about talking to me that way and don’t want to loose his family over something stupid
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽 ♀ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!
Can we lift each other up as women?! With all this nonsense going on i think it’s time we left each other Mother’s up instead of tearing them down!! So what’s one nice thing u can say about another person on this app? I have 2 friends that i talk to outside this app and I think they are both wonderful mothers and people in general. I won’t name names cause they know who they are. So now u all go!! I think we need this tonight!!!
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
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What a jerkslut. Pick a name and stick with it. When baby is here and he doesnt like it tell him too bad you had your chance! as for monitors the inexpensive ones work just fine unless you want a video one.
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What an ass.
Hopefully his attitude changes soon.
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LOL! @jerkslut
He is such a great dad... He's just never been excited during pregnancies. It just sucks because this will be our last baby (unless we have an oops)and I feel like he is making my pregnancy so much less enjoyable. He apologized and tried to console me when he saw me sobbing like a baby. Ugh! I hate crying, much less in front of him!
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I think it's so hard for them because they don't have the ongoing constant pressure n reminders that pregnancy gives us. We can't for a minute ignore overlook or imagine not being pregnant because of all the aches pains and worries, plus it hits real hard when you are chasing after the other Lil ones and thinking hello! Can I get some help here?! Am I the only parent here? Then you imagine omg what's going to happen when this baby is here. I'm exhausted as it is! How can I do yhis?! Guys are visual. I am accepting that. They don't see our aches n pains and they don't realize how insecure and worried it makes us feel to have zero control over our body. Not the weight part but everything going on IN side our bodies. No control over complications or labor itself. The only thing we can control is how much we involve them. Gotta tell them what's going on and how we feel etc. I told my DF that I felt like he wasn't excited or that he seemed disinterested and truth is when it comes down to it I think he's a little nervous too. So many unknowns. Just want to be a good parent and happy couple. It's stressful. The hormones are rough too. I think I notice more now pregnant that he zones out on our reality by heading to his cars or phone. I think it will be OK. I know how you feel though and I think it works best to let them in more than putting up a wall.
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I know what you mean. I've been crying in the bathroom for 40 minutes because of the same thing. I just don't get it. It's his son too! Now I'm laying in bed trying not to cry.