anyone go through this ?
anyone go through this ?
Does anyone's husband not listen to anything u say at all even about ur kiddos? My husband clearly never cares about what I have to say especially when it involves making a app for me (pregnant) or our son whose almost 2. I wouldn't worry so much if it weren't serious apps for me or our little guy. I'm high risk and my husband complains literally all the time bc I'm high risk and he sees no reason why I am . (I have a heart defect a heart murmur asthma and had pre eclampsia with our son. ) and our son is currently in and out of Scottish rite children's hospital getting multiple tests done -today our son had a upper gi performed. Husband claims he forgot . Even though I've told him several times in the past week. And our son sees a cardiologist Monday which he claims he's forgotten about and I just told him Tuesday about it. I reminded him yesterday of both tests. Which he told me last night that we didn't have the gas for me to take our son to his upper gi today (but had the gas for him to go off roading this past weekend.) So I called my brother who brought me $20 for gas and to get out of Scottish rite. 15 in gas and 5 to get out. We'll this morning I woke up and my husband took that money to put in the Jeep which was fine but didn't leave me the 5 to get out of Scottish rite. (which I told him last night I needed) so I had to call my son's grandmother to get 5 from her which she was OK with. I guess my question is does anyone else's husband do this or did this if so what do yall do about this recurrent action which I know he's lying about forgetting. He just doesn't think either of us need to see the doctors for our issues... any advice .. please no bashing just honest opinions.
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Seems like he's lying about forgetting or just not listening to begin with. He obviously does not care about you, your son or your pregnancy. Is this the only problem ya'll have or are there more things ? If he's so selfish that he can't remember appointments That your son needs, maybe you need to reconsider the relationship and have a serious talk with him. Maybe set up a white bored somewhere where he would constantly see it that has all appointment dates and times listed that way he has no "I forget" excuse, also, if you get money from family members for gas or something I wouldn't tell him and would put it somewhere he can't find it.
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I second pp's response...
No MAN would ever do that or put his own selfish needs above his family or the health of his family.
Any real husband would NEVER forget about any serious health concerns of his high risk pregnant wife or child...
Your "husband" is throwing around a whole truck load of bull ?
I can understand forgetting about a minor appoint like dentist ect. But not something serious and not if he's been reminded the day before...
And to steal the money you need to go to the appointment!!!!
Who the hell did you marry???
You call him a husband??? He care so little about you and your children's health...
If I was high risk my husband would be all over me and my appointments like a pit bull on a pork chop, any real man would.
Let alone if our son had serious health concerns....
I don't know why you let him do it, why you let him get away with all this??,
Seriously why are you with him??
He clearly doesn't care...
Op
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing, over and over,and over again,
but expecting different results."
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My husband wouldn't DARE act like this! He knows I demand and deserve more respect than that. Sure he hates taking us to appointments (I had two healthy pregnancies and have two healthy babies), but he knows that it's better to go and hear were healthy than not go and have something go wrong. No man would act like this. He needs a serious reality (and priority) check. Family is #1, always.
I personally don't put up with this bahavior. My husband gets basically one chance to change his act (after a talk) before I start bringing up alternatives. When you get a positive pregnancy test, the selfish ways disappear.